At 21, I still need to learn more. But as I am investing my time and effort into picking up girls and honing my skills, I want to develop a solid masculinity, not by building muscles by building a psychology and mindset of a real man. How will be able to accomplish this? Are there any good books to read? Any ideas or tips here will be really appreciated.

Good point Yan. If a guy can learn how to act like a real man any girls will just fall into his hands. The easiest way learn how to be a real man is from animals. Watch documentaries about lions. Now to some this might be funny but if you carefully pay attention on how a lion acts you'll see all the character traits of an alpha male. He just sits when he wants to looks brazenly wherever he wants. If he like a female lion he doesn't ask her indirectly "hey who lies more guys or girls" and then goes into his routines. He just comes up to the female tells her "hey your mine I am going to fuck you tonight" and she is just submissive to him not because she's afraid of him but rather because she want's to be with a alpha male and this lion is a alpha male. Now to be practical here are some good things that will help you. 1) When you approach understand that she wants to surrender her body to a real man. A guy that does not give a fuck what she or anybody else thinks about him. 2) When approaching a girl have a mans face. That means no smiling no being sad but rather a expressionless face(have no expression on your face). Make sure to keep this kind of face throughout the first part of conversation. Some guys go in like that but then start to get so happy that they're talking to the girl and the girl smiles so they feel they also have to smile that's where they hit the wall. 3) Be direct. This is not only with girls but with everyone. Start with small things this can be your friends family or whatever. 4) Express your emotions. Many guys think that if they express their emotions they'll look like a bunch of pussies. That is true if one expresses his emotions and expects some reaction from it. But an alpha male will express his emotions directly without awaiting for any feedback. For example a a guy says to a girl " I want you really bad now" Guy A says it and expects the girl to say yes or something of that sort. What happens to guy A is he projects that with his body language and the girl sees it interprets it as the guy being a beta male and makes an excuse to reject him. Guy B says it and doesn't give a fuck what she will say back. This confidence projects on his body language the girl sees it interprets it as a alpha male guy and lets the guy know she's ok with it. But Guy B didn't even care if she's ok with it so he's not going to act happy or different because he didn't care of she's ok with it or not. The girl senses that and the attraction goes even higher. 5) And finally never give up. Some may call it persistence some call it other things but the key is not to give up. Things may work right away things may not work even after thirty times of doing it just keep on trying. That is the main characteristic of a real leader which is a real Alpha Male. Good luck.

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Very good advice man, all realistic ones. The one about being persistent with a girl, brings me to question you to this: Lately I met a girl in my class and when I called her today (she called me 2x before), she said she is going to hang out with her friend, when I told her to come down and meet me. I guess I was too commanding. So, she said she will talk to me later, and later means a week later, not couple of hours or a day after that. Should I be persistent with her?

Check out Real Social Dynamic ... they are all about displaying male to female interaction (masculine polarity) vs the friend to friend interaction.

Basically, go physical right away and show your intentions right away. But, of course they can explain it best ^_^. They have free live infield videos of them demonstrating these methods and also have free videos of what kind of mind sets a male who displays masculine polarity.

Sincerely,

Donston

So ok about being persistent it depends. If the girl says no and she's sure about it she'll close the discussion. She won't give any excuses or anything like that. That means you should stop persisting. If a girl makes an excuse or leaves the door open you should be persistent. Now persistent doesn't mean be like a serious guy and command her what to do. It means don't be serious and look at it as a game. If u get her good if not good also who cares. As far as commanding here is an advice. Don't tell girls to come here and meet you. Instead say it from your perspective, try to include the words "I want" so "I want to meet you tonite wat u doing now " don't be afraid that she'll say no.

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