Hello everyone I'm new to the forum and I beleieve this is the place to post this, I have a dilema I volunteer at a charity on weekends sometimes, anyway I go in and there is a new girl, well I didn't think much of it even though she is gorgeous, well we talked a little and she ended up asking ME for my number so we exchanged numbers and began talking, everything seemed to be going great until I asked her to hang out, that's when she told me she has a boyfriend, well I wasn't quite sure what to do, but we've continued to talk for a few weeks now and she and I have been txting flirting etc. And I have also told her that I like her and she has also said she lieks me and can't stop thinking about me, well its been about 2 months and im now starting to fall for her veryhard and I don't know what to do, her bf lives with her (her house) so I believe (wishful thinking or not) that she does not want to cause conflict at her house (family also live with her and likes her loser) so sehe stays with him even though he is a dead beat and doesn't make her happy. So I don't know what to do my gut feeling is to lay it out on the line and walk away and wait, as much as I hate to say it,but I cannot stand to be only friemds with her it is just not enough, but I would truly appreciate some advice or guidance on the issue as I don't know if I can take this much longer

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Life is to short for regrets.

If she ends up leaving you for him don't expect anything long term out of her. If you want long-term then back off and go no contact, if she wants you...she'll come running.

As long as she's comfortable saying things like this to you ide ignore the bf comments. She's just saying that to be able to put the blame on you for when something sexual goes down... its what pick up artists call the anti slut defense, no girl wants to feel slutty. If there is mutual attraction their I say go balls deep for it. And don't let your emotions get the best of you... hold your frame together. She will most likely return to deadbeat.... the plus side to that is you fucked the dead beat alpha males gf
Good luck my friend
Yours truly
Dangerous

I've been thinking about about both of those courses of action (walk away and wait or just keep pursuing her) but I also did forget to mention a few things, they have been fighting a lot lately and he threatened to leave and she also almost threw him out the one day but she changed her mind, this. Is the other reason why I am having a hard time making a decision, they could split anyday now or just keep doing the dance so to say for months, and I am looking for more than hit it and quit it with her, at a point in my life where I'm looking for a realtionship again. Btw thank you both for your responses.

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