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A minute later the bouncer comes and pushes me out not even letting me take my coat. He says to me never to say that to girls. I don't give a shit neither for the girl the bouncer or whatever.
I learned this technique from an ex boss.
Before going out to the club with my lady friends, I went to the club alone and familiarized myself with the environment. A bouncer approached me and I gave him a tip. Nobody was doing this kind of thing so he was surprised with the tip which was around one fourth day's worth of his daily wage.
I told him that I'm going out with some lady friends the following week and I wanted to know if the place was secure and safe. He assured me it was and that he's going to take care of us. I built comfort with him for several minutes and bailed out of the club.
Sure enough when I went to the club with my lady friends, the bouncer was there with his co-bouncer. When he approached me, I covertly gave him a day's worth of salary as a tip and tapped his shoulders. All through the night, the bouncer and his companion prevented other guys from approaching my set.
In short, sarge the bouncers. If you can't give them any tip, at least try to build comfort with them.
Here in my location, it's common place for gun fights, knife fights, and fist fights to occur in clubs. Before my ex boss taught me how to handle the great risks in clubs, I joined the fray a few times. But who needs to fight when you can pay other people to do the fighting for you, eh?
A bouncer friend will cock block other guys for you and make sure that you're safe and sound in his club.

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