A girl hit me up for parties.

So I let her know that my friend was having a closed one. She said okay. I told her I might go with a few friends over later and if she wanted come along she was more than welcomed to.

She said ''I will consider it''.


Now, I didn't end up going because I am on meds for toncillitis and thought I would be feeling good by night time to enjoy myself for one day. So it didn't turn out that way, but the girl never replied back. I am okay with it, just wondering if I persisted, would it have come off as needy or actually showing interest?

I hung out with her only once, and sexual tension was there, but I couldn't make a move because I was dating a girl at the time(who I said we will be exclusive) and I just held to my values of not being a deceitful player.


Oh,don't really know if this is useful information, know this girl is always trying impose that she is ''selective frame''. She told me that she is selective with boys. I have not bought into her frame and have been disregarding all her tests as amusing.