Hi guys
back in the game after a LTR.

here's the story

Moving to a new town,was looking for a room so met up with a few people that showed me their rooms. One girl showed me hers, i decided to take the room. later she told me she's not moving out at the end, so i can't take the room and had to search for something else. she felt a bit guilty and said in general terms "you can always stay here in case of emergency, i have a couch here"

little bit of talking on facebook later. we kind of mutually agreed to go out once, next weekend. i said i don't have a place to stay yet. she said: "you can crash at my place". i said, nice thanks. later she asks me out on thursday already to grab a beer in town after work.

little bit of more conversation
she comes up with: "i might visit that town maybe with my BOYFRIEND/parents/sister.."

didn't react and went on with the conversation as nothing happened



wtf is this shit? i can stay at her place, her BF would be FINE with that if he knows it? Does she really has a BF?

thanks guys

Who cares?

If she's inviting you over... GO.

Game on!

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Of course i'll go


seems like she has a BF indeed. Many pics with a dude but he's from another country....

I agree game on as if nothing happened. I'm guessing it's one of those "I'm handing you all the responsibility for all the sexual intercourse that is going to take place, because as long as I tell you I have a boyfriend it's perfectly ok for you to put your willy in my vagina/mouth/anus/armpit" type things so she can feel less guilty.

Dude, you know if there's chemistry or not. If there is:

Fuck her. High five the photo of her BF on the way out...

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Exactly.

If she was in a totally committed, loving relationship that is satisfying her and leaving her happy and content, then she wouldn't be overtly flirting and arranging situations that will quite likely lead to sex.