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PostPosted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 10:25 pm 
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Hi all,

A girl I've been acquainted with (occasionally see each other out and have decent banter) split up with her BF the other day.

The day after they split up she started speaking to me, we had a 5 minute conversation and I left. Spoke again 2 days later (today over phone) and within the first 60 seconds I had a date set up. It all seemed rather easy...too easy.

I'm not particularly attracted to her but we'd have some fun. The question is, what do I need to be aware of here? You know when things are far too easy there's something wrong?

Hey if she just wants some after break-up sex I'm cool with that, but anything else?


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:05 am 
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She could be in a weird place emotionally right now. You might be able to get easy rebound sex from her, but at the same time, she could form an unhealthy emotional attachment to you.

I'd really think carefully about what type of girl she is, how likely she is to get crazy, and then judge if it's all still worth it.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:27 am 
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The conversation today was literally:

(she just got a job as a yoga teacher)

Me: so when's my free yoga lessons?
Her: when you become my boyfriend

I was like wow. This is easy to get a date now, as I'm sure all you PUAs know once someone says this it's pretty easy to take it further.

I was more shocked then anything. See why I'm concerned?

Thanks for your advice, looking forward to further replies.

P.s she can go as crazy as she likes over me, I'm moving country in 3 months lol.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:35 am 
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She yearns for mascline energy, but if she's also on the rebound, it'll be up to you to set boundaries. The worst thing you can do is make yourself overly available to somebody who's got attachment issues.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:35 am 
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I think you higher on the scale of picking up women to stick your dick in something that came this easy..Think about it man.. Something inside of you is setting off alarms hence the reason you made this post in the first place.. I'd let this one slide.

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