Hey, this is my first real post. Nice one!

Anyways, last night I got talking to this girl. Really nice, good enough looking girl. She's a foreigner (an American) which is really interesting to me and definitely in my favour. We were talking I'd say for a solid 25 minutes. In fact we only stopped when the place closed. You're probably going to slam me for not just riding her on the floor of that bar. It just wasn't that kind of night for anyone, trust me. ASD still has it's hold over the college.

As I said we were talking for a long, long time. She was very chatty, I really made little or no effort to keep the conversation going but go it did. She seemed interested in everything I had to say and laughed at all of my jokes, few of which were actually funny. Now that I think of it she may have initiated the conversation.

The thing is, I'm not sure if she was into me or just super friendly. I will very likely see her again tonight and want to cement my role as her future sexual partner. I have a pretty good idea of how I'm going to do this but I would also like to hear your ways to do this.

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I assume you were Kinoing her? Flirting and creating a more sexual frame?

Peace...

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Well... no. Not last night. I had been a long day, I wasn't drinking and I had only been out for 10 minutes beforehand. I genuinely did not go out with pick up in mind, crazy as that may seem to you guys. That's why I was so surprised when she became "interested." I will start that tonight though. Any more tips lads?

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Bro

I live in Europe and I was an exchange student in the States. Be aware that americans have a different view on being polite than europeans. It goes much further: they can touch, dance intimately, talk with you all night, asking everything about you as a way to show that they are polite. And it means nothing in general.

So if she was just nice or was interested in you, it all depends on your game. Did you game and how does she react?

Last night I didn't game. As I said earlier I wasn't up for it that night and I suppose I wasn't going to stick my neck out on the first college night either.

and if different rules apply for Americans then what are they? how should i treat her differently to the other girls who are nowhere near as open?

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I mean do Americans just talk talk talk? I barely even talk to my best mates and that's considered normal.

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So I guess all you guys are just dying to find out what happened to night, here's the after action report. It's a good one, seriously, I couldn't make this shit up.

So I went out fully ready to take on the American girl. She wasn't at the bar. So I decided to forget her for the night and try someone else. I was successful and found another attractive girl who will from now on be called the Irish girl. After the bar closed at 1am me and the Irish girl went to a house party that this random guy had told us about. Then, disaster! the American girl was also at the party.

I knew that the American girl would be hard work so I decided to stick with the Irish girl. She was super in to me and I managed to k close and number close her without much effort. After that I got talking to the American girl but I couldn't hit on her, the Irish girl was sitting on my lap on the sofa. Again, disaster! is there anything worse than sitting next to the girl you want while the girl you have is with you?

The party was a good one, I made out with the Irish girl several times. More interestingly I learned that the American girl definitely liked me, although not as obviously as the Irish girl. She kept touching me, and giving me these long eye contact looks. The house party ended at about 5am and we all left together. The Irish girl's house was in the opposite direction I was going so she left while me the American girl and a few other friends went the other way. At this stage we were all shattered (it was 5am after all) so game was out of the question. We went back to the apartment that the American girl shared with the others and I stayed there for about half an hour before I left for home.

So that's the report. I'm writing this at 6am the same night and still have not figured out what exactly happened. I learned two things, firstly that I have a great opportunity in the Irish girl. If I play my cards right I could definitely be fucking her by this time next week. Secondly, I learned that I do in fact have a shot with the American girl but with a lot more work.

So really what I'm asking is what I should do now. Should I chase the Irish girl, the secondary girl, and more than likely end up in a relationship (or at least an informal relationship). Or should I try the American girl for an uncertain outcome? the answer to that is pretty obvious.

If I do go with the Irish girl will that forever disqualify me from getting the American girl? Will a continued platonic relationship with her forever strand me in the friend zone?

Let me leave you to ponder those questions with one more thought in mind. At one part during the night the American girl was alone with me. She was singing and playing a guitar. It was angelic, I physically felt my heart melt.

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