Hi Guys,
I'm new here and but I'm not new to game. I have just returned from an encounter with an HB9 and I would love to hear some feedback, particularly from some of the more experienced members here. I wanted to post this in the PUA lounge but this is my first post so....
Last July I was playing a festival in Lithuania and had a threesome with two stunners at my hotel.
I was partying with a bunch of girls on the last night, dancing and making out with a few in the crowd. I invited the girl I picked (HB9 18 ) back to our hotel to come swim in our pool and she said 'sure but can I bring my friend?' (HB7 18 ) naturally I obliged.
We got to the hotel, the girls stripped off and we went for a swim. The girls started to get cold, so I took them upstairs to a (lockable) communal shower to warm up. The three of us, naked in the shower, naturally started to fool around and well, by this point, use your imagination
The original target, the girl I liked, got cold feet in the middle of this encounter; we were all drunk and she'd just fucked her best friend (the other girl) and me (a stranger, an attractive fun stranger, but a stranger none the less). I went after her but by the time I got my trousers on she was gone.
She did however, email me a couple of days later once I was back in the UK to explain that she liked me a lot, but got freaked out as she'd never done anything like that before, let alone with her best friend.
We shot a few emails back and forth but a couple of weeks later I ended up back in a relationship with my on/off girlfriend of the time and I'm generally monogamous in my relationships so I slipped off the radar.
I split with my girlfriend at the end of January this year (she cheated) and I've been fucking this Chinese girl on the rebound for the last month or so (HB6, 24, cute but boring). A week ago today I got a spam email from the HB9 and so I shot her a reply saying something to the effect of:
Heya, it looks like your email has been hacked, you should probably change your password... (unless I could really make $10347 a week working from home, in which case sign me up!) how's it going anyway?
We shot a few emails back and forth and it turns out that she moved to London 6 months ago.. We arranged a meet up and she came and met me near my place tonight.
We had a drink at a nice pub up the road and had a pretty smooth flirty conversation, ended up going back to my place to 'hang out' and ended up making out with a passion I've not experienced for a while. I feel very strong chemistry with this girl to the point where I am feeling intoxicated enough to make this post. A part of me believes she was trying to make me fall for her and I'd be lying if I said that I am not dangerously close.
Here's the clincher. During the course of our conversation she revealed that she had 'done a good deed' by getting married to this Nepalese dude she works with so that he could stay in the country legally, but he has since fallen for her. She said that she wants a divorce and has told him that she is going to leave, but she is 19 and married. She says she doesn't feel bad for marrying him as she felt she was helping him to stay in the UK but has no intention of staying with him and that she has made that clear to him.
I knew this when I took her home and while I am not in the habit of facilitating divorce, she was unambiguous in her intentions towards him and made a point of telling me. I have nevertheless nicknamed her 'trouble'.
She got incredibly horny during the make out (I could feel she was wet through her clothes), but I chose to hold back and leave it at just a make out and took her to the station so she could get her last train. My reasons for this are twofold: Firstly, I am super tired today and was considering cancelling our meet for this reason. I'm glad I didn't cancel. I have every intention of fucking the bejezus out of this girl and I want to do it properly. First (second) impressions count after all.
Secondly, well, all of the above.
My question to you, the community at large, pertains not so much to the ethics of this situation as to the matter of not fucking her.
I didn't fuck her on the basis that if someone wants something, they'll want it a lot more if it doesn't come easy. That and the fact that I am physically very tired and would prefer fuck her on a day when I can be sure of some stellar orgasms through top notch sex. I contemplated getting her off with my hand but reasoned to myself that that too, would be better when I'm at my physical peak.
I'm a big believer in David Shade's stuff in general (if you haven't got his manual and foundations ebooks then I highly recommend that you do so now. Sexual confidence, is confidence and will help with all aspects of your game) and more specifically the principal of making sure that you really deliver when it comes to first sex, you had better make sure that you make her come with your dick.
Do you think it would have been better to fuck her and have a potentially lack luster sexual encounter (though the chemistry was strong enough that it probably would have been good anyway) or do you think that by not fucking her I have left her wanting it (and me) more?
Also, I am kind of concerned about my interest level. Considering I have met this girl on two occasions and taking into account the circumstances of each encounter, I haven't had a chance to screen her properly to really make a judgement as to her integrity etc. Taking this into account, my interest level is way too high. Despite how things may appear, I actually think she might be a high quality woman worthy of dating on an ongoing basis and if that proves to be the case I intend on doing so with vigour.
It is unlike me to even consider dating a girl 'seriously' unless I've been fucking her for a month or two and she is obviously starting to fall in love. I rarely label anything and I find that the woman will do that for you anyway if you're doing the rest right, focusing on everything else (being Alpha and giving her awesome awesome sex).
That said, I am crazy into this girl and I am concerned that if I betray that fact and come on too strong too soon, I will blow my self out of the water.
I am almost considering not seeing her again because I like her too much, but this seems to kind of defeat the point and is totally fear based and reactionary.
She asked if she can trust me. I told her 'definately not'.
What are your views on a situation like this? I meet a fair amount of girls and have only felt this strongly so soon on one other occasion.
All comments are welcome
S
CHAT