Where do I begin...?

A couple months ago, I was an inexperienced twenty year-old. Never been with any girls let alone kissing one. The PUA community taught me to change my inner game, to become more confident, to become more attractive by being less needy.

I found a girl, had my first kiss and for the first time, I felt my life was complete. I let my guard down and became an needy AFC again. Although I was sincere in my feelings, that needyness eventually drove her away. For two days she was all that was in my mind. I could only think about how much I wanted her and if there was any chance of us being back together again.

Then this morning, while reminiscing about the times we had, I remembered something I had once learned..."The world is a buffet", that there is so many woman out there why be stuck on just one?

That was my wake up call, sure I had a great experience but I cannot wait and hope that things will change. That's why I must continue to grow and learn from my mistakes, so thank you PUA...you have taught me how to get my first girl and how to deal with my first break up.

Now it's time for your heartless phase of banging all women till your dick falls off. Enjoy it.

Respect man, congrats. First kiss of your life at 20, I can feel what it was like.

Def. one of the best motivational quotes of my life. Keep it up man.

Love reading stuff like this, makes it all worthwhile!

Reflecting on my own breakup from an LTR recently I was reminded of that one clip from the TV show 'Friends' after Ross loses some girl he was obsessed with and Joey uses some ice cream metaphor telling him to 'grab a spoon'...still wise words years later

Nice one man!

It's really changed me. Even the way I am with guy friends, at work etc I'm all changed. Girls are being more frequent with me and building up a good life. The same is on it's way to you.

It's a great feeling.

I was thinking that in life, you only need a one or two good guy friends and the rest are like casual friends. The rest of the time, you should socialize with women and invest your energy to pick them up. What do you think?