Hey guys!

So, I have a couple ideas, but I would like to know your opinion on what attitude to adopt toward a younger girl. I am 19, she is 16 and we live 170 miles or 275 km from each other (but I will move to her city in 3 months!). So here's how I was thinking to proceed:

1. I think that girls prefer older boys because they are more mature so I was thinking of acting like the mature guy (I'll be moving in an appartment, entering university, etc) so I could put some emphasis on this.

2. I also think that girls like guys that seem inaccessible so I was thinking of playing this card since we live far from each other. You know, we will live closer in 3 months so, in fact, I'm inaccessible but I'd want to let leak a little hope of being accessible (do you know where i'm comming from?)

I must also say that this is a medium-term project so I'm not looking for sex but more for a relationship.

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I wouldn't emphasise the 'older guy with cool older guy lifestyle' angle too much or it might seem corny and forced. You are an older guy with stuff guys her age don't have, that should be enough without you dropping it in all the time.

If it's a medium term thing for you then the main thing is avoid being friend zoned between now and the time you live in the same city. Keep a flirtatious/potentially romantic frame and you'll be fine.

younger girls want a guy to have fun with, no real strings attached for the most part


be spontaneous, never taking things too seriously, realize they can be quite 'bipolar' up one moment, down the very next without having any insight as to why (typically not highly self-aware when younger)

be in the moment, not thinking about the future or you'll get taken for a ride

It makes a lot of sense I think

There isn't much of a relationship until a strong sexual foundation is laid down, there is no connection stronger than a sexual connection.

And I don't agree with you "acting" and pretending bro, and are you sure you want a highschool girl when you about to enter a uni full of girls?

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Seriously think about this point I'm in my first year of Uni as a slightly older student (early 20s) and had an LTR when I got here. Believe me, it is massively restrictive, and I'm glad to be out of it.

Plus a highschool girl might lower your social value somewhat with Uni girls, although that's hard to predict.