Here's my situation. I went out with this girl a while back. It didn't last very long, and I would imagine it had everything to do with my lack of experience and my inability to make a very aggressive move. It took me 4 solid hangouts to actually kiss her. Once that was over, I did not contact her in any fashion. She tried texting me at one point but my number was changed, and when I found out about the attempt, I did not care either way so I didn't do anything.

So fast-forward 7 months. I go to a party and she is there. As soon as she sees me she runs up to me and jumps into my arms. It's one of those hugs that you kinda feel like there's more to it than a standard hug. We talk a little bit, but nothing too extravagant. Later on we were talking again and I was being pretty funny, that's why she liked me in the first place, and after giving her a cocky/funny response to something she said, I walked away. When I was walking away I heard her say 'I love you Justin'.

When I left she came at me again, and gave me an even longer hug. People that were there all realized it....a gay dude gave one of those 'Ooooohhhhs'. When we pulled away I kept my hands on her hips and we looked at each other for just a second. She looked absolutely gorgeous, and I really wanted to kiss her, but I refrained. I know she has a boyfriend, although I'm not sure what their level is, and she never even mentioned him to me.

I have a really hard time with this sort of thing, and would not mind starting to see her again. Anyone got some helpful advice? It would be much appreciated.

Well, i see there are just a few ways down this path :

If you are in love with this girl .. then start a relationship and get married in a year to her.

Otherwise if you want to stay bachelor and enjoy, then --
If u want to be frank with her then,
tell her you fuck around a lot and you can have a relationship with her but are undecided yet about LTR in your life.

If u dont mind fooling her around, then
tell her you like her too and keep playing other girls too.

simple.

-- Jack