So, I am in college, and live in a suburb area. The thing is I don't have a car. We mostly go by the transportation provided to the students in college. But, whenever I need to go somewhere, I tell my friend to drive me over so that we can do something for fun. If I want to take a girl out to some place, lets say an arcade or to bowling, and I don't have a car, but she has one, how will I take her out? To me, it kinda feels awkward when the girl you are taking out has a car but you dont. You can't tell her like, "Be ready. I will pick you up at seven."

An alpha male is supposed to drive the car and take girls out, not the other way around. Please send me some suggesstions and ideas.

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Look I don't know why you are on this forum, if you aren't serious or are not willing to help others with problems. I know you may not have the questions that I have, but if you can't help genuinely, then at least don't troll. You made other shitty, nonsense and childish posts like this to my other questions on this forum. If you are so good at PUA, or know everything to get girls, then you should help others out. If you don't want to give back to the community, then keep your mouth shut, and don't make any nonsensical reply ever again.

I'm no pickup artist, I'm just very good with women.

I'm in exactly the same situation. What I would do is not make a big deal out of it. Pick the venue, choose the time, etc. Be alpha in everything you do, just let her drive FOR YOU.

Another thing I tend to do (especially now, during spring) is to pick a no-car activity. Taking a ride on the bike, a picnic, whatever. Or, go out for a drink (alcoholic) so she can't take her car. But then again, being alpha is not in such a tiny detail as her driving you instead of the other way around.

The place I live, doesn't have any stores within a walking distance. Its mostly filled with houses and highways. But, I will see what I can do.

What Danymiet is very true. It's not about what you have and don't have, it's how you deal with it makes you alpha or not. If she's like me, who drive, we probably haven't taken the bus since we got our car! It could be romantic to her that your taking her out on a bus.

Another thing, driving could be boring when your ran out of things to say where as on a bus there are ton of things to talk about. Look out the window and you could probably make a comment about something. 'Hey look, I used to get beat up there!' That's probably not a good example. Think of it as rapport building. Then you could walk her home. She may even invite you in because it's raining out. Just saying.

Another thing you could do is meet at the place. Tell her in a playful voice, 'Would you like me to pick you up in a bus?' I'm sure if she prefer driving she would tell you. Then either accept it and thank her ones when she pick you up and maybe ones when she drop you off.

I feel that, being alpha isn't about what every other guy do, but making useful of the resources around you. If she ask why you don't drive, tell her you prefer talking to strangers on the bus. If she's turn off by it, then she may be one of those girls who's controlling. So just watch out for that.

Trying something new will make her remember you. Make you stand out. Like always, good luck and I hope you and your date will have fun.

-Jax

A confident man doesn't worry about "status".

i am not worrying about status. the problem is the place i live (college) is a suburb area. for us to go and hang out somewhere else, other than campus, works only if we have cars ourselves. i dont have one, meeting a girl always on campus, and doing nothing for fun, seems boring to me. thats why.

asesino said this as a piss take because frankly you're worrying too much. Let go. You are worrying about status, we can tell.

A lot of people on this forum have pointed you in the right direction so you wouldn't need to worry about this stuff but you never seem to take note.

Look this asesino guy is nothing but a prick. He isn't doing this to me only, he is doing this to everyone else. You titanman, gave me many good and positive advice which I really appreciate. But this asesino guy isn't helping me in the first place, but is messing with my post. If he really can't help, then he should just ignore it. I am not bugging him to reply to my post and tell me and help me out at the middle of the night. I think, this guy just needs to change or adjust his way of thinking.

no you need to change your way of thinking. are you 15? MAKE HER DRIVE! shit Ive been getting more pussy (better too) since I lost my license for a DUI since when i was driving. I live in Orange county too, its allll suburbs, still doesnt matter. I enjoy getting driven around by sexy women

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Got it bro, I am not 15, I am 21. Just don't know what to do in these situations. So what do I tell her? Come pick me up at 7? Let me know, I need help in these situations.

yea im in college too and i have this same fucking problem.....since you do not have a car do stuff with chicks around campus.

think creatively. go for coffee, walks. find cool places around campus. stay late.

if you got comfort with a girl who drives to school or has a car find out when she usually goes home and text her a little bit before and be like hey im hungry wanna go to _____ (food place NOT on campus) then just meet her at her car. if your fine with not having a car and if you dont make a big deal out of not having one a girls not going to give you shit about it. YEA, a car would help a TON. but face reality. you dont have one. ol neither do I. what can you do about it except accept it.

straight up tell girls you dont have a car confidently. even joke about how your gonna make them drive you everywhere. i even find it better not having a car than having one. i make girls come to me.

Become friend with a guy with a car, or better yet, a girl with a car. Problem solved.