I am a newbie in the pickup girls world and I have in my hands this girl that openly accepts that she is a player.

She has orbiters, not many because she just finished a LTR, she shit test me all the time, she is very self confident, and she keeps on giving me IOI's. Se is not tremendously cute (like a 6 or 7), but her personality is awesome. She would let me touch her a lot, we hold hands, she sits on my lap in public, but she never touches me back, and she doesn't want to kiss me and of course no sex.

I read in another thread in this forum, an advise to deal with female players, and basically the bottom line was: "1. play hard to get, 2. not to play into her frame, and 3. Keep the sexual tension"

I think I have been able to do all of that with some sort of success relative to my experience. Last night we came down to my place, had romantic dinner, got drunk and danced romantic songs until 3 AM. Lots of touching, and IOIs, but no sex and no kisses. I feel stuck and do not know how to move on. I feel that if I do not succeed soon in taking her to bed with me, she will outgame me and I will fall into the friends zone...

Any advices?

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Eddie

Invite her in your house and escalate until you're either finally having sex or she calls you her best friend which basically would be the end of all hope.

See that is the point bro... she basically said it out loud already "I want to be your friend only", but then she gives me this IOI's that lets me know that she is actually considering something else (e.g. I am divorced with kids so she said the other day that I'd be a great boyfriend but the fact that I have kids freaks her out).

I am a newbie and I do not know if I am misreading her game, but also she just finished a LTR and she just needs time?

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Eddie

Well if you're waiting for her to kiss you first or you're waiting for her to give you permission to kiss her then you gona be waiting FOREVER! As a guy you should be dominant, you kiss her when you want to and to do that you need to start escalating the whole thing. Forget romantic dinner and dance because if no kissing was involved then there is nothing romantic about the whole thing. Girls are horny pretty much most of the time so use that as a way to get her turned on which will lead to kissing and eventually to sex. When you said you were dancing why didn't you kiss her neck? breath out in her neck, blow in her neck? i hope you do realise that a woman's neck is the easiest way to their pants don't you!

well man, try to have sex with her if you want to, nothing is stopping you but yourself, if she shuts down your escalation and stops being alone with you or starts flaking on you all the time, you have your answer

Oh I did the neck kissing and breathing and she got turned on to the point that she almost kissed me (ALMOST dang!)... My question is: should I keep the sexual tension and escalation? or should I slow down to give her more time? I am afraid that if I continue pushing too fast I might reach a breaking point, and on the other hand, I sense that if I back off a bit I may come across as non dominant and she might think that I started playing her game now, or I may end up in hearing the LJBF thing.

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Eddie

You're miles in de LJBF road my friend what have you got to lose? Escalate until she shuts you down. There's no too hard escalation, only too slow. BTW when shut down a first time, take a step back and escalate again like within minutes later. (Don't be a rapist.)

When a girl puts you into the friend zone by saying "You're a great friend" or something respond by being dramatic and disappointed and say "Ohhh nooo the friend zone, how am I ever gonna get laid??" Delivery has to be key. You have to look unhurt and like you don't care, it's gotta be fairly funny.

I saw a PUA do it on Youtube and they ended up having sex the same/next day.