I'm a really small 18 year old 5'4 asian and I wanted to know if my physical appearance may affect me and my game. Thanks in advance.

Im 19 Asian 5ft 6

My ex (HB10 blonde) she was a stunner, back in school everyone wanted to get with her and was extremely jealous

How did i win her- confidence, DHV and most importantly i teased (neg) her alot but i complimented her best friends more than her so she could qualify to me

Nothing is impossible just perfect your game

Soncheese aka swag x

Wow, that sucks dude. Sorry.

so...build up my confidence? but how do I gain said confidence?

Just approach approach approach and approach even more nothing else

Simply learn your mistakes. You'll improve much more on openers (just thinking on the spot), building rapport and you'll eventually F-close a HB which is totally worth it!

Then after that your confidence is sky high and you'll think to yourself "i am after all a PUA"

and the next girl you approach you will see a much different you because you'll have PUA game

Soncheese x

Do you mean i gave bad advice? or your being sympathetic? lol

looks are subjective from person to person, do they matter on a specific person to person basis? yes

overall though they are subjective, one girl might not care at all how tall you are and think you are the cutest guy she has ever seen and the mere presenece of your voice makes her wet, while another girl might despise any guy under 6 ft 5, really depends on the girl, play to your strengths, your biggest assest as a guy will be your confidence, just work on yourself as a person, you can't change the unchangeable, but you can always improve and better your odds, also don't get all wrapped up too hard in looks, yes they matter, but in most cases they are not as important to women as they are to men

thanks this was pretty great advice.

Of course it affects, silly question. But that does not mean you can not game hot babes. Its just that it would be harder for you than if you were better looking. But that should not stop you, you just need to work harder.