I met this girl few years back, hang out. I was with her after her break up, being that one nice guy. I believe I am friend zoned. Recently we went out together for movie or cyber cafe and i would take her to the park and kino escalate her to hand waist level. But the next day I asked her to be my girl friend she rejected me giving me random excuses such as having a boyfriend(she dont have one) and she don't believe in love. What went wrong here? I am new to this forum hope to seek some guidance

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You just asked her to be your girlfriend when you two haven't even kissed? What the hell did you expect? Sorry if I'm harsh, but by this logic you could have proposed too.

First guideline I give you : first you fuck her(or if you're young for God's sake at least kiss...), then you make her your girlfriend. It's pretty logical

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^^ he's right, if you havent even kissed her yet what do you expect?

just start again building rapport, ask her to go on a few more dates then try to K-close and progress from there

Soncheese x

Yea, I am still young. I think I am going to ignore her for a few days then attempt to get that k close. (: Thanks for your advice. I am new to attraction, all i did so far is just reading and opening a few set. This is the 1st comfort building level.

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Welcome to the forum!

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Ok so I ignored her for a day and all I get is 2 facebook message
(OIIIIIIIIIIII
LOL)
and a poke on face book, is it that attraction is not enough?

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What attraction are you talking about? Attraction is not something you should measure like is it enough or not anyway. It's something that is either present or not. You can spark her interest level up, but that's not the same as attraction. You're looking at it in too small details, while you don't see the whole. It's a very common mistake of beginners.

Look... you need to learn... a lot. I'm speaking for your own good. You're still young, and inexperienced. Do yourself a favor and start meeting other people, especially women. Because this one is a dead end, and it will remain so until you get at least 2-3 times better than you currently are. Don't get me completely wrong... You might even have a chance of pulling her as a girlfriend right now, but it's just not worth it. You will lose a lot of time, and your chances of being together forever in this young age and with this needy attitude is mathematically very low. Think forward, and move on.

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You know what, maybe you are right. She isn't worth all this time. She is only a HB 3. =x if i see it from the universal way.

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dude HB3 -_- cmon mann i know your a new but step it up a little

Soncheese x

LOL which leads us to the next thread that i posted a few hr back. Freshman Camp coming up and there is HB 7 spotted.

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link??

Soncheese x

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There you go There is much to be learn but I will try my best to learn. Eventually I will have to develop my own style.

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lol is there such thing as "HB"3? I think you can start calling them UG's by then

Everyone is HB when you have oneotis LOL!

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But oneitis on a 3? I hate this 10 point scale anyway. For me there is "I want to bang" and "I don't want to bang" cathegories, but according to your rates, a 3 is out of question.

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