I didn't get caught out by a lady or anything, as I haven't actually read 'The Game' book. Since it was basically about a professional writer reporting on what he experienced, it just never appealed to me.

My question, is if you meet a lady and in the course of conversing, she says a friend loaned her 'The Game' book that informs about a pickup subculture, what should you say to her, when saying that you think the book is crap and you genuinely haven't read it, whilst defending the idea of guys who are into social dynamics, as I am.

I just said while the book isn't my cup of tea, since women have turned rejection into an art form, anything guys do to improve their social and conversing skills is a sign of intelligence.

No, you shouldn't have said that that. Giving any hint of you knowing about that book, indicates that you are some sort of PUA or you are trying to pick her up. Instead, act like you don't know the book at all or never heard about it, and somehow change to a different conversation.

What???

Seriously, you would deny it? Why would you apologize for being who you are.

My answer would be:
Yes, Ive read it, more than once, it is an awesome book, did you read it too? What did you think? Did you understand the message you can find between the lines?

Never ever apologize for who you are, just for what you did while she wasnt looking.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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Situation A:
You read that book, you implemented those techniques on her and she said "I know what you are doing, I read that book"

This may be interesting situation.

However you are in situation B:

You never read that book, she says "I read the book game"
You say - ok, and..?

I mean how is that related to you? Its like she would say "I read kamasutra". You say - good for you.

I mean I do not even understand whats the question here, its not situation A where you could have some issue. You did not read the book, you did not implement those methods. There is no issue. So you react as if she says that she read any other book that you did not read.

Accept and let her qualify herself to you. She is trying to impress you by saying she read the book. The idea is to accept that she is cool because she read the book and make her qualify herself to you that she is smart enough to know the contents of the book. This will place her into chase mode.

You: "Cool. So what's your take on it?"
Her: "Well, blah, blah, blah..."
You: "I like open minded girls. They're the smartest kind around. So what's your take on one night stands and threesomes?"
Her: "Blah, blah, blah..."

If she objects to the idea:

You: "Come on. I thought you're open minded."

If she tries to impress you that she's cool with those:

You: "Come. Let's have wild sex at the beach. I'll give you four different kinds of orgasms."

You get the principle of accepting and qualifying. The compliance baiting will be a lot easier. The least that can happen is that she'll play punch you on the arm. If you know how to ping this kino into a sexual play fight, then you're on.

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I would say good for you.

HA! If only it were that easy. Lmao!

I usually get the play fight with compliance baiting but hopefully we'll get there with new techniques from Stelar. I hope you'll create a thread someday on how you fuck closed an ex-pornstar. That would be so cool. I'll look forward to learn from you brother.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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