There is this girl that I liked and I showed interest in her for about a month, she is in my classes and in some classes we even sit next to each other.

I told her that I like her. She was shocked she was like no way, and then she said she didn't want to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment. I told her no worries we can still be good friends, we both agreed on this and then I stopped talking.

I really like her and I feel so bad that she actually never noticed that I liked her. I don't want to give up so is there anything I can do now? as I feel that I haven't even fought for her.

How should I act to not make it awkward between us in class when I'm sitting next to her?

You already made it awkward there is no turning back just forget about her.
Speak to other girls

In the long run you'd have a better chance with her if you go looking for other girls. If you still cling on after she has turned you down your just fitting so perfectly into the "nice guy" persona and that is not what you want if you want this girl. Chase some other women get to know them and see if she is still so special.

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Dude why are you avrage joe?

Now go run around her like some dog, and get nothing...... be happy frined of her... or... go be a man for a change???

Really really bad move.....
you tell us so little i imagine that:
1. You never showed her properly with body language and your attituyde that you like her.
or:
2. She knows that you like her but she akt like she dont know...


In bouth cases, you sholdnt never say somethinkg like HEY I LIKE YOU for a lot of reasons. You remind me of my friend who came to his ex who is flirting with him again and asked her "CAN I KISS YOU?"

That is like worst move ever... better kiss her suprise then ask her.... and... explore terotory with body languge....

Dont repeat that mistake...


and find other girl with this one is probably over for sometime... maybee next time but you have to GAME HER A LOT!

Perfectly natural to be attracted to someone of the opposite sex. Don't apologise for letting her know how you feel. You're a confident guy.

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[quote=""The Gift""]Perfectly natural to be attracted to someone of the opposite sex. Don't apologise for letting her know how you feel. You're a confident guy.[/quote]
+1 but dont go tell every girl that you like her...


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just keep talking to her, what is the big deal, you just blurted out the first soi from you that she has herd, just don't act awkward or weird, roll with what she says,

if she starts finding reasons to avoid you, or starts playing with her phone all the time when talking to you, or shows signs of dis-comfort and bad body language around you, then probbably you should give her some space and not creep her out

but if she still will talk to you and be around you and have fun, consider that passive permission for you to talk to her, and ask her out

just don't change your mind, hold strong that you like her, and do your best to get to know her as a person

GOOD LUCK

Verbal communication is an important aspect of our lives. However, this is not the only way. So, if you express your emotions verbally and logically, but fail to express your emotions through actions and behavior, you'll have doubt and confusion.

Put it this way: If you're doing yard work in around your house and your buddy comes over and follows you around with a beer in his hand telling you that you can count on him for anything, what would you think? You're working your ass off and he's flapping his mouth about being 'there for you', and meanwhile, he's drinking beer and just watching you work.

Wouldn't a guy who's REALLY there for you ask, "Hey, give me something to do, let me help you out." And even if you were to tell him, "No, I got it," he would tell you, "Get the hell outta here, I like yard work."

Words are important but without action to back it up . . . words are cheap.

So:

1. You like her so much you told her, "I like you."
2. You like her so much that when she said, "no relationship", you said, "OK, fine."
3. You like her so much that you 'stopped talking.'

^I bet you demonstrate more emotions for your Xbox than you do for this girl. . .

Read this several times and try to figure out what it's all about:

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Ignore suggestions for 'gaming other girls'. Unless you can figure out how to game one girl, you have no chances at 'gaming other girls'. See this one through. You slipped a little but you're not late for anything. In fact, it's even better that she tossed out the ol, "let's just be friends" (out of her own nervousness) Raise her excitement. Raise her interest. Get out to one on one events. It's even easier now because you two are 'friends'. Flirt with her, touch her, have fun. . .

The 'friend' title means NOTHING. It's about as meaningful as you TELLING her that you 'like her'. . . these are cheap words. It's time to EXPRESS your emotions and intent a little better.

firstly everyone thanks for your replies. kasabi thanks for your advice I haven't actually really shown her my feelings and emotions.

Why?

Why? I really like her, and so I felt that I had shown that to her but she was surprised that i liked her. I think this may have been because I flirted with other girls because I wanted to improve my game. I did all that for her, before I wasnt that confident with girls and now I have seen dramatic improvements with me since I joined this forum my game has improved a LOT. One mistake I think I made is that I guess she felt that I treated her the same way as the other girls and so she truly never took me serious.

But even if I didn't get this girl, I can take this as an advantage that I have learnt alot.

I truly like her thats why I dont want to give up. I want to fix up and actually some how show her that she is different from the other girls. Iam thinking of stop flirting with other girls. Any other tips on how to make her feel that I truly like her and the approach I should take?

You felt bad for whom exactly?

I felt bad for her that I confessed to her that I like her without showing it to her before. Also I gave her hints that i did but I don't know why she was so surprised. She never knew that I liked her. Thats why I feel bad, I dont know why I couldnt express my emotions to her even though I truly like her.