So I was at a nightclub on the weekend and a couple of friends of mine where hanging around the bar, then all of a sudden a HB started to dance in front of me and dragged me to the dance floor which I then began to dance behind her. . .

How is this possible? Does this mean i'm physically attractive but i don't even know it? I don't approach, what can I do to overcome the fear of rejections?

Yep. It happened to me. A girl grinded her boobies and pussy on my body while I'm dancing with my female friends. She also transferred to our table and hinted that I take her home. But I don't know her. She might have AIDS or something so I politely rejected her. She number closed me though.

• 1. How is this possible? Girls, like men, get horny too.
  
  2. Does this mean you're physically attractive? Two points. One, she's ovulating and your immune system is hugely different from hers making you more physiologically (not physically) attractive than other men. Two, you are her type. Maybe, you reminded her of her ex boyfriend.
  
  3. How do you overcome the fear of rejection. Two ways. One, be rejected 10 times. By the 11th rejection, you get numb. Two, fuck 10 girls for hire and go for the quality bang. If you know what you're doing and several girls get emotionally connected to you revealing that you're the only guy who brought them to multiple orgasms, you'll realize that you have much to offer compared with 90 to 95% of other guys. Once you reach this level of experience, you'll have a confident attitude that will say, "It's your loss not mine."

If you have high testosterone levels, this will trigger a biochemical soup of sexual attraction hormones that will make you sexually attractive with women. Testosterone also helps define your muscles, aggressiveness, and sex drive.

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This happened to me 5 or so times over the last year where a girl aggressively approached me - by far the most I've been approached by women in my life (and I am in my late 30s now). Every time I am usually caught completely off guard and it's usually when I am just chilling with a drink in my hand, not trying to flirt or anything. One even flat out said I should take her home at the end of the night. Another one was practically having sex with me on the dance floor. I've documented a lot of these experiences in previous posts.

Bizarre because I am a pretty average looking guy. In good shape and tall but I've never been one to attract a lot of women.

[quote="asesino"][quote="Hellhound"]Yep. It happened to me. A girl grinded her boobies and pussy on my body while I'm dancing with my female friends. She also transferred to our table and hinted that I take her home. But I don't know her. She might have AIDS or something so I politely rejected her. She number closed me though.

[list]1. How is this possible? Girls, like men, get horny too.

2. Does this mean you're physically attractive? Two points. One, she's ovulating and your immune system is hugely different from hers making you more physiologically (not physically) attractive than other men. Two, you are her type. Maybe, you reminded her of her ex boyfriend.

[b]Actually the MHC theory has been largely debunked; in other words, there's 0 evidence to suggest that one person is attracted to another based on immune system differences. [/b]

3. How do you overcome the fear of rejection. Two ways. One, be rejected 10 times. By the 11th rejection, you get numb. Two,[b] fuck 10 girls for hire and go for the quality bang[/b]. If you know what you're doing and several girls get emotionally connected to you revealing that you're the only guy who brought them to multiple orgasms, you'll realize that you have much to offer compared with 90 to 95% of other guys. Once you reach this level of experience, you'll have a confident attitude that will say, "It's your loss not mine."

Ya, good idea, he should go hire prostitutes to raise his self-confidence. Makes sense....
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If you have high testosterone levels, this will trigger a biochemical soup of sexual attraction hormones that will make you sexually attractive with women. Testosterone also helps define your muscles, aggressiveness, and sex drive.

[b]There's no proof that higher testosterone levels man more sexually appealing, pure anecdote.[/b]
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Yes, Really great reply's. I'll take that into consideration. . . Best Advice.

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All kinds of scientific theories get debunked all of the time even those that have already been established as scientific facts. It's a matter of weighing which scientific researcher has more reputation to date versus those debunking or supporting a particular theory or issue. In this case, the source for this assertion is Discovery Channel which of course chooses from mainstream scientists and most reputable researchers in the field of study featured for a show. Here's the link:


And another link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DONT6xjX ... re=related

• 1. This one is from a mainstream publication citing the latest scientific research: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/2 ... 91631.html
  
  2. If you want to get technical about it, try this: http://psycnet.apa.org/index.cfm?fa=buy ... -17363-005
  
  3. And this: http://www.shoreline.edu/psparks/resear ... ession.pdf

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I'm going to look at this later when i've got the time. Throughout my psychology education I became well acquainted with the literature, and the MHC theory had way too many holes in it to be deemed plausible. As for testosterone linking to attraction, it is likely that some other mediating or confound variable is responsible rather than testosterone in and of itself making men more appealing to women.

What the research does show, however, is that males with higher levels of testosterone tend to have more pronounced facial features (e.g. stronger jaw line, more rugged appearance etc.), and women tend to be attracted to these types of features. It's not the higher testosterone in itself which is attracting women, but rather the physical indicators. You need to understand that testosterone is typically harmful to the body in higher doses, so the fact that a man can have a high teststerone load and be healthy is an indicator of physical fitness. In other words, women on an unconscious level can discern males who can withstand effects of high testosterone by facial attributes. It's not testosterone in itself that they are drawn to.

That said, again things aren't cut and dry. Women, depending on where they are in their cycle will be attracted to different types of faces. As she gets towards the peak of her cycle, she'll generally have a preference for more androgynous male faces. So to assume she will always be attracted to masculinized faces is not entirely accurate, but generally that is what she will go for.


Get it?

There's no debate here.

Testosterone is not SOLELY secreted by the body. It's secreted along with other biochemicals that make men attractive. Aside from giving men more masculine physical features, testosterone also triggers aggressiveness and/or extreme competitiveness. When you're very competitive, you excel at sports, your career, education, and so forth. This competitiveness leads to achievement that differentiates you from average guys. It turns you into a genuine alpha male and women notice this unconsciously and consciously through the product of your competitiveness.

Testosterone also increases your sex drive. This makes you bolder in initiating and consummating courtship with women. Generally, women like bold men.

As for the context of high testosterone levels, a high level is in the context of versus average men. Also, the synthetic infusion of testosterone in your body is dangerous. Yet the natural inducement of testosterone in your body is beneficial. For instance, regular exercise can increase your testosterone levels substantially and at the same time make you physically fit. When you're physically fit, your sexual attractiveness increases.

What makes the car run is the fuel. In simple terms, testosterone acts the same way.

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