I know this is controversial, let's not get into it.

I think most high-quality girls have boyfriends or are seeing someone. That's a reality. Obviously there are cases in which this isn't appropriate, but if it is, what is the way to go about it?

I've only found NLP stuff and I'm not into it.

Thoughts?

Ignore it when she brings it up. Work towards whatever your goal is, number close kiss close etc, and understand that as long as you don't end up in the friendzone, there's the potential she talks to you in the future when her relationship is at a bad point. She knows damn well what she's getting into if you haven't agreed to a friendship with her in anyway.

If she never contacts you, then you shouldn't care because you've already moved on.

I have found that alot of girls that have boyfriends if they are into you, they just won't tell you, and if they do just take responsibility for it and keep going, just say ok, then ignore it and continue (there are tons of other one liners you can use, but really just her knowing that you know and you taking the initiative to escalate is enough), talking to them, don't bring it up, just keep moving things forward, but realistically there is no way to get a girl who is not interested and sexually unavailable, you want to be qualifying girls to find out if they are sexually available to you, don't try to get girls to like you that don't like you, just find girls that do like you and escalate and try to get them alone, if a girl has a boyfriend there is a decent chance that you will not under any circumstances be able to lay her, but you might as well try if you are interested and have some sort of fetish for getting girls to cheat, as alot of girls are just cheaters (and they usually won't even tell you they have a boyfriend if they do)

also girls can tell you ''I HAVE A BOYFRIEND'' as soon as you show some interest, and she might not nessicarily have one, that is a good sign that she is uncomfortable with what you are doing, and there is a good chance she is not interested in you

as a side note, don't date a girl seriously that you managed to get to cheat, she will almost certainly cheat on you too

I found this again and realised I didn't say thanks, so - thanks! That's some great advice. I've been having much better luck with this lately. If the boyfriend comes up it's better to drop them or maintain a distant friendship. Before I was getting all formal and saying we "just can't be friends". I've now realised that is some weak bullshit, better never to put your cards on the table in general.

One of the best statements I have yet read, Once a cheater, that will always be an option in the back of her mind!

No one is expendable!

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straw man technique. shit is brilliant.

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Pretty much this, a hot girl is going to have many men going after her? Sure, does that means she's dating one or several of them? Not at all, a good looking woman CAN be picky about who she dates, or might not be interested in dating for several periods of time.

no such thing as a "boyfriend destroyer" it's just marketing sham PUAs known will entice a guy to buy their trash

Call the guy and tell him you're trying to separate his girl from him, and that he comes to fight you if he wants.

That's the only right way and if you're gonna do it, do it as it should be done.

lol this