So...i hve this HUGE crush on a girl in college. She's a 10 and a ballet dancer...
situation:
she knows who I am, she knows my name....but we don't talk allot.
I'm the type for LDR, but because of my love for skills, i want to know how to PU...

what's the first thing to do??

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The simple answer is to go talk to her. One of my favorite conversation starters is the opinion opener. If you see her across the room, leave the friend by your side, go over to her, and say something along the lines of, "Hey, me and my friend are having a little debate and I think a female opinion will settle the issue. You do have a valuable opinion, don't you?" After she says, there's a million things you could say. The one I use most commonly is, "What do women value more in a man, intelligence, or athleticism?" Just continue the conversation from there.

By the way, that's only if you're dry on conversation starter ideas. If you can think of something situational which you believe is better, go for it.

Good luck.

imo, stop seeking advice on this forum....you got a crush on her so you are not trying to PICK HER UP...

just talk to her, but dont come off as a creep like me

Yeah so...even with a crush i can still use PU skills....I like learning skills duh...
btw, i really need social skills and PUA know good openings en how to keep the conversation running...even how to close it with a kiss, wich i really wanna do right!

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MUsic - That what speaks for me
DAnce - That what gives you the signs
LAughter - That what keeps me joyfull
SQillz - That's what keeps me going!

I agree - you should only use opinion openers in emergencies. Even the guys who invented them have moved on a long time ago. They're good if you're scared or inexperienced, but I've never met someone who's good and uses them regularly.

If you want to use a sort of mix between opinion and direct openers, here's a great video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lj5D2i2O9D0

The guy opens with an opinion opener and follows up with a direct comment. This works.

Most of all, forget the word "PU skills". Be yourself. If you start trying this PUA shit with no prior experience, you will fail with 99.9% probability. Just be yourself, tell her you like her and roll from there.

The real key to PUA skills is practice, practice and more practice - which you can't get for this girl. So just do your best, that's about it.

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well im just a normal guy but ive gone though the same scenario time and time again, if you really fancy her banish that emotion straight away other wise your gunna come across nervous and yearning for her attention. treat it like you dont even like her be aloof and dont be afraid to walk away get her to follow you like a kitten on a ball of string, you give her what she wants and she wont play,,, dangle yourself but just out of reach

try and find something you both liike ask her something abstract as an opener, try and get her number nd leave it another day.

let me know how it goes

damn, i was looking for the like button xD

Aight thnx guys, i really needed to know this...
I never had a figure who'd show it to me and no, my parents are not even the last people i would ask about it...(they really suck at it)

srry i'll start with the newbie-mission ok:)? I'm a little bit overexcited!

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DAnce - That what gives you the signs
LAughter - That what keeps me joyfull
SQillz - That's what keeps me going!

Hey man. I feel your pain. My dad never taught me anything, despite being around for my entire life. When I coach and write, I try to give guys everything I wish my dad had taught me when I was a kid. Keep us posted and best of luck.

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Grow some balls man and speak to her, don't expect her to come and speak to you because girls hardly make the first move. If you really wana get a shot then you have one chance to make it count so you either take it or just hang on there until someone else does.

Approach her, you have absolutely NOTHING to lose but you have a lot to gain. Simply go up to her and say 'so i saw you stalking me with yout eyes so thought i'd come and see your story' then make the convo flow after a bit of laugh!

Good luck