I specialize in teaching the KWML method of masculinity. I'm writing up a mock presentation of it, in order to test my knowledge.

I'll include summaries of each type, and how to develop it in your life.

The KWML archetype is a categorization of masculinity; it allows you to pinpoint where you lack masculinity, and you can develop it to become a more whole human being.

King
Warrior
Magician
Lover

King
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The king is the centerpoint of harmony in kingdoms. When the king is whole and mature, the kingdom flourishes. When he is sick or frustrated, the kingdom collapses. In masculinity, the King is the centerpoint for integrity. He is the man that passes a woman's tests, is able to handle the raging feminine, and leads when all odds are against him. A man fully embodying his King spirit might:

- be completely calm when a woman is pissed off
- stick to his morals and values in the face of persecution
- lead his people, and stick up for their respect and his self-respect.

You can develop your King by being ok with your experience. When you develop your Warrior, you'll learn how to be present to yourself, the interaction, and her. A man embodying the king is not only present to the interaction, but is fully ok with her when she is raging, crying, whatever. A king allows the emotion to pass through him. The difference between a King and a non-developed King, is that the King feels everything. Fear, embarassment, all of it. The non-developed King runs from it. He feels the fear, and he tries to calm the woman down.

In order to develop your King, first develop your Warrior, then your Lover, and then practice coming from those 2 places at once (be present to what's going on, be ok with it). Also, develop and stand by your morals. Women will try and take you off track, they'll see if they can get you to step down from what you believe in in order to appease them. Make sure you know what you want from life, you know what you stand by and stand by it.

Warrior
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The warrior is the embodiment of energy. He is the man fueling with dominance, you see him walking down the street and think "shit, he's trouble." He's the man you notice instantly as he enters the room. Everyone knows he's there, and he seems to not even know you exist as he walks past you. He is the watchful eye, he stands up for his community. He leads them to safety in times of need. The warrior is the man constantly searching for his purpose; and when he's found it, he's searching for the next step.

The basis of the Warrior is Presence. Being present to your body, the surroundings, and your interactions between you and others. I can notice every single god damn detail about my interaction with a girl. It's not because I've studied psychology and memorized tons of individual body languages. It's because I'm present. There is a girl in class that rejected me (the sociology girl), I can tell she likes me. I can also tell she's afraid that her friends won't like her if she goes out with me. I can tell all this because I'm present.

You can start developing your Warrior by doing kinesthetics, getting in touch with your body. It sounds complicated, but it's not. Sit there, close your eyes, and focus on your breathing. Allow your awareness to glide over your body. Feel the pain in your chest, the wind against your back. Your awareness will wander; gently glide it back to your body when you notice it wandering. Then, focus your awareness on your surroundings. Allow yourself to notice everything around you, everything in your peripheral vision.

A good benefit to being present is that you're on the emotional level of the woman. I don't think PUA works in actually allowing attraction to manifest, because when you use PUA you're thinking. When you're thinking, you're not noticing the emotions developing between you and her. When you're present, you not only notice the emotions but you can let them guide you towards what action you want to take.

What I do when I first see women, is I look at them, wait for eye contact and see if I notice a connection. If I notice a strong sexual connection, I may decide to go talk to them. I save a lot of time because I don't go and try to CREATE a connection; I see if it's already there. If it is, I may or may not decide to take advantage of it. If it isn't, I move on.

Magician
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I'm currently developing my Magician. I don't have as much info on him as I would like, I'll post what I know.

The Magician is the seeker of knowledge. He is the scientist, the mathematician, the computer programmer. He is all of you. Your Magician is what lead you to pick up dating skills to begin with.

The Magician has two sides: the seeker of specialized knowledge, and the seeker of personal growth. I am a Magician in the sense that I lead people to personal growth and transformation. I am also a Magician in the sense that I contain this hidden power, these secrets of life that can be used for good or ill.

The magician is a joke teller. He loves entertaining, he loves crowds. He relishes the excitement of stage fright.

That's all I have for now, I'll come on later and finish Magician, then write up Lover.

Any comments? I'll finish the rest within a few days.

The Magician
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The magician is the guy always making people laugh. He may light up if you say "you seem pretty funny, got any jokes to tell?"

In Medieval times, the Magician was the King's personal advisor. One day, a king saw a beautiful lady walking through town. She was married. Overcome with greed, the King had the husband killed and took the lady for himself. Later, the King's personal advisor told him a story. "One day, a man had company at his door. Instead of killing one of his own ox to make a meal, he slaughtered the lamb of a poor neighbor." The King spat, and declared that man should be killed.

"Do you know who that man is? You." proclaimed the Magician.

The Magician can keep the King in check.

Magicians will always be ready to tell you about their work. They will delve into past stories of success, their first dollar earned, all the secrets they have about a specific topic.

The Lover
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The Lover....

Some quick ways to notice when a man is a lover:

- he is told by women, "you're so sweet!"
- he is usually submissive, seeking to give love to those around him in any way he can.
- he has an aura of kindness, the opposite of the Warrior.

The Lover is the romantic. He melts hearts all around him. The lover is the man that appreciates life, and beauty. When I walk outside every morning, I gaze at the clouds. I breathe in the air of life, and I smile.

The Lover appreciates beauty in all its forms. Good, bad, ugly, hot. He is the one that has "mindfulness," an appreciation of everything around him. Situations go bad? It's ok.

Being a Lover is vitally important wth women. It'll allow you to appreciate her even when she doesn't want to.

I have a girlfriend now, and a few days ago we were texting. I described a scenario to her, and she responded back "that sounds perfect. MARRY ME LOL"

She capitalized the "marry me" because she wasn't sure how I would react to it. Being the Lover I am, I was fine with it. I said back "Maybe I will ."

The Lover loves all beauty.