OK this may be a long story but I want to cover the bases.

My long time best friend/roommate who I consider my brother, has been dating this girl from a restaurant next to my shop. This chick is 5'11" size 1, D cup, and Barbie doll perfect. Literally could be a cover girl for maxxim. So in that time he's been playing the nice guy card because this chick is recently divorced from the only man she's ever been with. She's really not a hoe.

So last night I ended up going out late due to some unexpected business. Got to the club to meet my roommate at around 1:30. I guess he and her were fighting about something stupid and he was playing the ignore her card. So she's the best looking girl there wearing white with neon green lace tank top. She more than stood out and every creep there was on her. So I asked my roommate if was cool with me dancing with her. And his reply was "go for it, I'm done with her" so I grab her out of the group of guys with a simple "you're mine tonight" and led her to the dance floor where we spent most of the night. Well she left early and about thirty minutes after leaving I got a call. She was driving home and wanted me to talk to her. This was really odd because although we know each other realky well she never calls me. So I went to the parking lot to talk and the conversation got sexual really fast.

See, I mess with her on Facebook a lot by commenting on her pics and statuses. Telling her how she's going to be my bedroom achromat, I'm going to helicopter for her... ext. So she tells me she wants me to come over and how she's really horny. How she wants to end things with my roommate because she doesn't want to be in a relationship and she will just hurt him. She tells me she doesn't just sleep with anyone and has been with only one man her hole life (she's 28 ) and she has a crazy connection with me. So I'm talking dirty to her on the phone when I hear my roommate in a pissed off voice behind me. "Is that mel!"...

Well he heard the hole conversation and now he's pissed off at me. He as much as cried. It's not like I ment too. But we both have multiple girls... we've shared girls, he got head at my shop from a different girl just 6 hours before this. But come to find out he actually likes this girl and I guess was hurt I was talking about fucking her.

She's still dtf and I really really want this girl. I see her at work a few times a week so she's not going away.

What do I do? This just made all this really awkward.

u should go fuck your friend instead

Wow great advice bro!

You violated the bro code. Is fucking one hot girl really worth sacrificing a friendship - or more than that since you said he's like a brother to you? Apologize to him, tell him you don't know what you were thinking and take him out for some drinks and meet new women together. This cannot end well if you take any other alternative. Next time don't think with your dick.

Agreed. Although I don't think it's going to be that easy. I just got off the phone with him and I think we're cool again. But this chick works at my favorite restaurant and I see her a lot. So it's not something that is just going to go away. I texted her earlier saying sorry, I wish things were different, and I'll see her around. And I'm going to leave it there. It's just a shitty situation. I mean he was in the club with another girl getting his dick ground and watched me the whole night as she and I danced. He knows pua too and I had my hands inside her shirt on her stomach and did just about everything but kiss her on the dance floor. At one point she was bent over touching her toes as I thrusted into her like I was fucking her doggy style, spanking her ass and he thumbs upped me.

It's easy to say that you removed all emotional aspects from sex, it's much tougher to act on that idea. Very few men can handle a woman they sleep with showing them in person that he was not special, and that he is easily replaced. If you are half as good as you claim to be, you can control your libido. He tried to be a good friend by not being angry at you for wanting to dance with her, but hell, it never occurred to you that it could be a bad idea?

It won't be easy, but doing the right thing rarely is.

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That's I think a lot of the issue. He's never slept with her... I think he put the pussy on the pedestal and is upset that she's actually coming to me. Yet very time he's tried she pushed away. I'm by no means a jealous person, he suffers a little bit. But I think this is one of those times where I have to step aside and let him feel like the big cat.

What should I do about going to this restaurant? I want to act like nothing ever happened. But I know that may not be possible. Should I act like I don't know her or should I be my normal self around her?

Dude having a girl like that want you works great in your favor. you show value to other woman she is in contact with now. so any girl she talks to at work about you will also want to fuck you. take the good out of the situation. you cant fuck her but you can use her want to fuck you to fuck other girls around her.

1) You violated the bro code.

2) Even if you didn't fuck her for real - you had phone sex, and 'facebook sex' (whatever the fuck that is)... and your roommate KNOWS it. He's envisioning this all the time...

3) You 'say' it's cool between you two? I don't think so.

4) Fuck the chick, then dump her hard and fast. Then - you're bro will know you dropped her, and you'll never get her back... But you're already blamed for fucking her (in his mind, you've hit it), you should just fuck her and ensure it's over after that...

I think you've already hurt the bro code, and that's not a guarantee - showing him you're done with her proves that. Fucking her is just your added bonus.

And, yes - I'm serious. If he was THAT GOOD of a friend - you'd never sext with her to begin with! You violated the bro code long before he found out about it - that's fucked up as it is.

My brother's wife - my friend's ladies are family - I don't fuck with family.

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LOL AND THAT'S A REASON TO VIOLATE BRO CODE? Biggest faggot.

I understand your dilemma, and really he shouldn't be jealous. He told you to do whatever you want - you shouldn't say things like that if you don't mean them.

But now, he IS jealous and you have to deal with it.

Talk to your bro - tell him your friendship is your #1 priority, that you don't want to fuck things up with him and that this woman comes second to you. But also be clear that you DO want this girl - even if it IS his decision to do what he wants next.

I think that he will come around and understand. If he doesn't - you should give the girl up.

Also, I think that the way you handled things is the best. She might've been testing you but you showed self-control and character. Whatever happens next, this was most likely to your advantage.

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who is more important to you, this girl or your friend?

if he is like your brother then this doesn't make sense, why would you be flirting with a girl he is hooking up with, I mean if he is just some guy you ''know'' but isn't part of your crew, then who really cares and fuck yeah, helicopter for that ho

but if this guy is like your brother, then cockblocking him, or fucking him over is just a bitch move, seriously, even if he gives you the thumbs up everything is ok and the girl is a smoking 10, you don't fuck your best friends over like that over some girl, as you can be guarenteed the girl won't last as long as the best friend nor is she as fun to hang out with after the sex gets boring,

you should be working together to get girls, he helps you get girls, you help him get girls, guide each others cocks, don't block them, why you would even be flirting with a girl your buddy is seeing is a little shady to begin with

anyways you are going to do what you are going to do, but you committed an unspeakable crime, and obviously you should smash your own balls with a hammer in front of him to make ammends

Wait? What the fuck?

He handled this best? He broke the bro code, had been sexting and having phone sex with his buddy's girl behind his buddy's back and he showed self-control and character?

Dude, who the fuck thinks like that?

Wow...

I just thought it showed a weak little boy....

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I should've clarified. I think the way he ended things - by telling her he wishes he things were different - was the best way for the reasons I already indicated.

If you actually read the rest of my post - where I told him to drop the girl if that's what his friend wants - I think it's pretty clear what I meant.

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I think a few of you guys are a little confused.

One I never sexted her. The Facebook posts were public and many he commented on too. You just have to understand thats how I am. Those comments were posted in fun, I mess with girls on Facebook all the time so I really wasn't trying to pick her up.

As for talking to her on the phone. I went out to the parking lot to talk because it was so loud inside. Not because I was trying to hide. But when the conversation tuned sexual I should have either stopped or diverted the subject somewhere else.

He and I are cool again. And I think after some time I may ask him if he's okay with me hitting her back up. It's really not uncommon for us to sleep with the same girls. And that's a lot of why I didn't think much this. He's normally not jealous about chicks. So when he was saying "go for it" and giving me the thumbs up. I got the feeling he was okay with things.

I just have to see what happeneds from here on out a determine if I'll ever pursue this girl or not. I'm not going to go behind his back though.