Hi guys, thanks for your help in advance. Im a newbie at this so any advice would help. I frequent a bar near my house and a 5 days ago I was showing a cute bartender (who's always chatting with me) a pic in my cell and she ended up putting her number in my contacts list without me asking for it. She's married (but not happy from what she says) and she knows I have a girlfriend of a few months. I sent her a text a few days ago and we had a nice short conversation which I ended. She sent me a text next day saying how much she's been working and how she can sympathize with me (i've been working long hours myself lately). I responded with a brief text because I was busy working. The following day my gf ended up wanting to go the bar so we stopped in for a few drinks. We actually stayed till they closed and both of us had a good time. The cute bartender was there and I caught her out of the corner of my eyes looking over in our direction several times. Yesterday I sent her a text and had the following conversation:

ME: here's a vid from the beer fight last night you had with Erica
HER: Omg, Erica is crazy. We did have fun. Thanks for coming out....you guys are troopers. Luv ya..But Luv ya girl a little more... lmao...!

ME: Haha, 1st u wanted that crazy girl who tried taking advantage of me at the bar last week and now you're after my gf. Guess I can't bring hot girls around ya...haha
HER: Right...? Lol... Watch out.....I might have something u dont got ...lol

ME: I'm sure what you got is good... but I have you beat still...
HER: Lmao....U cocky bastard...Lmao

Im not sure if I should text her again or wait if she texts me back. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

I like your text attitude it's funny cocky type. You did a lot of good things but you see sfv I can give you a clear answer now on what to do but it won't make this interaction any better because you have the wrong mindset. If your thinking on what you should text a girl you have the wrong mindset. The reason you're thinking what to text her is because you think if you text her the wrong thing you'll lose her and you want to be perfect. Right now she is more important to you in your eyes. Dude, you're a guy you should treat her like any other girl. Who cares if she is not receptive to your text. As a guy you have to do what YOU like not what SHE will like. Also, don't use too much emoticons. So in short my answer is decide whether YOU want to text her and if the answer is yes just text her. Good luck!

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