Hey guys,

Would post this in the lounge, but I don't have a high enough post count to do so.

I was talking to a friend the other day, and we got onto the topic of casual sex with friends. She was talking about it like it was just par for the course, and seemed surprised when I told her I'd never done it before. This has actually come up in conversation in the past with other girls too.

At first I thought it was about not wanting to complicate a friendship, but I realized that wasn't entirely it. I have a few friends who I really wouldn't mind having this relationship with. There is sexual tension, and have been obvious signs of interest, sometimes jokingly, sometimes a little more seriously.

So my question is, how do I broach this subject with them and make it happen. I know I could when I'm drunk, but I really don't want to do that, it just gets messy. Plus, I would like the potential of sleeping with them more than once.

Any advice on this front?