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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 5:04 am 
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Ever since I've gotten into PUA, I've had alot of succes when it came down to women. Managed to open them solid & escalate towards a close. I've had plenty of girls saying I'm awesome and basically qualifying theirselves for me. Just recently had another HB9 that couldn't believe that I had no relationship.

My issue is that I meet girls like no tommorow, I make them extremely interested in me , but I eventually fail to make something out of it. For example, I had a date with one of the girls on saturday, she texted me saying it was amazing etc, her day was perfect, blablabla... I texted her back with a nice message but didn't text her anything else for a few days. Pretty much did this to not spoil the tension and keep the attraction up, making her wonder what I'm doing etc.... But In Belgium it has always been important to keep texting a girl whenever u establish a great connection.
Asked a few girls last night about this and they all agreed it's a vital part of attraction, I honestly hate texting so I'm pretty stuck at this point... (no body language, tone etc...).

I'm also wondering if I'm maybe a bit over-confident? All my friends that are in relationships are like, bellow their girlfriend, and it seems girls like it as most of them have been happily together for plenty of years. I've been told that people find my a bit to straight-forward and that I can be intidimating at alot of moments, whilst I'm just being honest.. lol ;). The place where I live, people tend to be socially broken and there's hardly any energie, so I come over as something very hard to deal with (different wavelength).

Kinda gets annoying since I lost alot of chances... Would appreciate some advice.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 1:50 pm 
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Belgium girls (unless you speak of that muslim majority, ok just kidding) are no different than any other european girl.
Look, GIRLS of course will tel you that, girls will tell you that you must be a gentelman and all that. But PUA is not about doing what girls tell you to do. Pua is about what works.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 2:18 pm 
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When you think you're to straightforward, back down a little. Escalate hard and without mercy but step back when it's too much.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 4:17 pm 
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When you think you're to straightforward, back down a little. Escalate hard and without mercy but step back when it's too much.
Strong point, I think my main weakness is not escalating hard enough and I gotta admit, once it breaches a point where there's alot of tension, I do tend to slow things down rather then escalate, it's the worst habit I could possibly have, only have had 2 LTR so I'm not that experienced on that field yet.

Guess I have a new aspect to improve in, thanks for the advice.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 9:06 pm 
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One of the modern game fundementals is being able to stand tons of tension. Whether it's the apocalypse opener, direct escalation game, or 60's tension based gametricks. All of them imply you can hold pressure longer than her. Train it if you find it hard to do. Play high stakes and win.


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