So I have gone through most of my life avoiding social interaction when it wasn't necessary. I worked to get through grad school and then have a good career, but I never had much in the line of women except some desperate chicks that threw themselves at me.

At 27, other men with my place in life are either married or swimming in a sea of beautiful women. Yet there I was on a Saturday night in a bar, wondering how some short, fat, bald man in his mid-thirties is walking out of a bar with the attractive young woman that approached me first.

He told me I had "a great deal of potential" and to not waste my years in Japan, and to check out PUA forums. I want to learn PUA through experience and not through theory mongering or reading, as I hate reading a great deal. At the same time I only want to play with the very good looking girls, despite having few traditional social skills relevant to this matter. Where should I start?

1. Game does not exist.
2. Be direct and sexual.

It's very vague and broad, I know. But I would have to spend a good solid day with you otherwise.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

I've got largely the same problem, haha. Foreign country with no close friends or wingmen to help you get used to the scene, and no one to rely on but yourself.

I don't think I can help you, but all the best nonetheless. I heard that Japanese girls are hot, though I haven't been there before, haha.

There are a lot of PUA videos, check out La Ruina's video and others. However you should really start by reading The Game and some other books, you need to start learning some theory before you can try putting it into practice.

Dont Worry About wingmen. when i head out i usually go in a Group (for a bit of social proof) then wander off in the club bymyself. i dont believe in wingmen because most that ive had are selfish, AFC or absolutely clueless. as a matter of fact i was hanging with a guy that i met that night who wanted to wing me but i realised his games way different than mine and i wandered off

chris, this whole "Game" phonomena had helped me quite a bit in the last year or so hence, i disagree with you on that 1st one. i think a lot of people will too.

in regards to part 2 being direct and sexual works if you want a lay. if you are after a girlfriend or marriage material then i guess your approach needs to be changed.

btw chris have you read Fearles relentless escalation?

Read The Game and Mystery Method.

The routines are a bit contrived, creepy and outdated and it's better to be natural but there is definitely a lot of useful stuff in there. Every other "revolutionary" book pretty much recycles the Mystery Method in their own words.

The best advice I can give you is to find a guy who is very good with girls and ask if he can teach you. Most guys will agree because of their ego. They feel good teaching other guys.

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

Just practice as much as possible. Videos can be a good alternative to reading and sarging (going out and picking up women) can easily be done solo. I'm pretty sure when he first started out Mystery sarged solo?

If you feel insecure about sarging solo just say something like "my friends are in VIP" or something else which explains away you being on your own.