| He's fucking you up, you shouldn't look for an easy, cover up, try not to insult him way to tell him, it's always best to directly confront your problems, especially when you are with people. Anything other is just weak. Especially with this guy, he's running around being a retard, and that requires a direct confrontation. You should tell him openly, without any holdbacks and without worrying that you will come as an asshole or offend him because there is no fucking reason for that, you're his friend and you want him the best and this is why you are telling him and it's his issue that he has to work on. I always come up honest, direct, open and straightforward with my friends and never lost one because of it.
The only thing is if he will understand it or not. A lot of people are too stubborn, too dumb, to not see some things, to accept something and to change. If that is the case you will wage it and see if it's worth staying friends with him.
I had this one friend who's a weirdo, a creep, and never had anything with a woman. He's been fucking up big time whenever I'd go out with him and it was going on for a long period. And I tried telling him that and more I fucking told him about it more he would get pissed off, like it's none of his problems. He was too fucking weird to understand anything.
One time he fucked up so big and creeped the shit out a 2 set of foreign girls that I had nailed down so professionally I could've probably landed a threesome if he didn't interfere. I approached these 2 british girls and had instant IOI's from both sides and I am having fun with them untill he suddenly comes out of nowhere and nervously sits besides a girl SAYING NOTHING. He was watching from distance and was fucking jealous I had such good success with them and probably thought I was gonna run away with them or whatever and felt the need to just come there no matter what. What a fucking psycho. So he makes an awkward moment, girls look at him weird and fortunately I reacted very fast and introduced him but that was fucking it, they knew he was a fucking weirdo. The conversation after that was not so good because he pretty much didn't know what to talk and I had to make it up for him. At one point we got isolated with with girls. I started making out with the blonde while he was talking to this other girl.
They go to the bathroom at one point and I start talking with him and he looks perfectly normal like always and I'm happy thinking that I am gonna get laid tonight. After 5 minutes or so I saw them walking thru the crowd thru club, And we follow them. We reached the exit doors and there I had the biggest WTF moment in my life; saw this 2 girls 200 hundred meters away with shues in their hands sprinting the fuck away like a guy is chasing them with a saw and they are running for their life. I instantly knew these guy creeped the shit out of the other girl and was wondering what the fuck could he possibly say to her to make her do this, because I couldn't fucking manage it even If I wanted, and I laughed for 3 seconds then I was in bad mood cause he fucked it up. And I asked him what the fuck he did and he was pissed off that I asked him that and was mad at me, and the fucker even didn't want to tell me what they talked about so I could probably analyze what the fuck was the mistake.
I am just avoiding him now.
Some people need to get ditched out of your life because they're just pulling you down constantly. Figure out if this is that guy.
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