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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:19 pm 
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I do not know what is happening with me. Been practicing this pick up stuff for like 3 months and recently decided to go with direct game because i dont have much result with indirect game, i kind a get tired of all those indirect game, like asking for some street or asking epinion. so i decided to change that and i went out saying myself i am only gonna do direct game. but for two days i went out i cant even do one direct approach. i can start conversation with anyone, but somehow walking up to girl and telling her she look beautifull is more difficult for me. i do not know what the fuck is happening with me. before when i was afraid to talk to girl i still push myself hard and what i realize is that no matter how afraid i am, their is little part of me inside who want to face the fear, a little voice inside me that say "go" go" go" "you can do it" but now when i see beautifull girl i dont have that voice anymore. ofcourse i am scared but their is no voice inside that is telling me to "go "go " go". its like my motivation is kind a gone too. i still want beautifull girls but their is no inside voice that telling me to take a risk. and dont tell me i am lazy or anything coz i did went out and i cant puch myself thats why i am here. before when i force myself to go out even i dont really want to go out i still feel little bit excited about going out but now i push myself to go out but its just like a work not even little bit excitement. what is going on ? its not that i dont have any result, my motivation is gone too. any advice about direct game or any misssion i can do during vacation would be appreciated. thsi vacation i am going to focus on direct appraoch. thank you


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:29 pm 
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Well, If you want a be a pussy that's all you mate.

What are you losing when talking to a women you don't know?
Don't worry.. I'll wait..

Exactly, you lose nothing.. Telling a woman she is beautiful, to her is an amazing feeling.. Because she knows someone is enjoying looking at the hours of doing her hair, putting on make up and getting her nails done.
Being direct to a woman will get you a very pleased "Thank you!(:" as long as you're not creepy about it , And when you get such a positive response of course you will feel good about your self and will want to start conversation that leads to asking this girl if she wants to have a drink or get some coffee.

Let that be your "go go go" Because every woman wants a man who can make them feel good and if you can do that.. You'll have no problem.

~Goodluck , Shy~


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:46 pm 
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direct approach only works in the day time on the street. It's hard to transition after you give them a compliment. after you say something like "Hey, can i tell you something really quickly? I literally just saw you and I thought you looked really nice and i wanted to come over to say hi". Then when she says thank you and hi back, you transition to say "And what I noticed about you was that ...". You say something you like about her e.g. what nationality you think she is, something about what she's wearing etc. you can make a comment about anything about the girl, and then you find out what she's doing in the area and what she does for a living and relate to it. also say only abit about urself, make urself mysterious which is very attractive.

about getting ur motivation. you have to act like you don't give a shit about what's gonna happen, what's she going to say or do. its all about the "dont give a shit attitude" that will eliminate your fear. but what allows you to freeze and be covered with fear is waiting for the voice to come to you, which is not what you should be doing at all. what you need to do is to "ACT ON INSTINCT". see something you like and in a split second, act apon it. the more you think about approaching a girl, the more likely you wont do it. so you have to ommit the thinking part. whenever you see a girl, dont think about anything, just go in there and say something you like about her without thinking. just approach within 3 seconds of seeing her.

a mission you can do during ur vacation, go out into the street and walk around, find something that you like about a person, guy or girl, or if you see something you like in a shop, just go up to a person, tell them and say why do u like it. another exercise, when you're walking in the street with a friend, you can practice telling it to them. the general idea of these exercises is to practice to "SAY WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND". give it a try

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude ;-)


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