First, there is no fuck close yet. Not even a kiss close.

Second, she said "I love you" through two texts at dawn.

Third, I don't want to lie to her. I don't love her yet. She's a fun person though with a sharp mind. I want a fuck close though so she can experience multiple orgasms at least once or twice in her life. I also want to keep her as a long term friend. She's fun.

Thank you in advance.

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The only you can do here is to be honest. Every other way would just be a lie or manipulation.

"Cool, tnx!"

I'd say something like "I love you too, you've just moved up to 3rd place on my love list.

But I'm inexperienced myself, what does anyone think of that? Assuming that they aren't talking about real love (I assume OP and the girl have only recently met).

You want to fuck her, fuck her with passion, emotion, and the kind of unifying experience that is described in the most cliche terms of a loving relationship, but you don't want to be in a relationship?

Can't have your cake and eat it, too, bud.

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Gay.

Don't sleep with that girl bro, you know it isn't going to lead anywhere good.

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Just ignore it. She'll know whats up when she tries again and gets no response.

Game as usual, but any time she pulls the L-word, no reply.

The HB texted me again this morning. She's expecting a reply. I think I can only delay this up to the next 24 hours. The last time that something like this happened to me and I just ignored it, the girl turned into a stalker-- one of the worst I had.

I need more ideas brothers so I can evaluate the best option. I don't want this to turn into another stalking problem later so I need to see all possible solutions.

I've learned in technology management that no idea is stupid. All ideas are good and sometimes what seems like a stupid idea will turn out to be the best solution. Keep the ideas coming. I only have 24 hours left.

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This.

"I don't use that word much. I take it pretty seriously."
"Do you mind not using that word? We're not there yet."
"Whoa, you love me?? Weird..."

I've used the "I take that word pretty seriously" from Slip N Slide. And somehow indirectly said that I have other girls on the side but I like her company.

The text response was not bad at all. I'll see her face-to-face sometime to calibrate the situation. For now, I've got some fuck closes to work on.

Thanks a lot everyone.

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"I understand what you mean but I don't love you. I am in lust with you."

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I give them the mulligan - and say it as such. Seems that always happens around the 3-4 week mark in my target demographic (36-55).

I don't say it back if the chick is cool as hell - I'd rather cultivate a FWB to hang with.

If she's psycho nuts... I say it on occasion (sue me, I'm gaming, not marrying).

But - I look at it like this... I'm saying "I would love to fuck you and discuss the methodology of my conquest with my PUA buddies"..... So, in the sense of being brief - I paraphrased... and just used "I Love You" out of that sentence...white lie? Depends on the perspective...

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Damn. This is gold. I could've used this but the input came in too late. Something like, "I take that word pretty seriously. I understand you also do but I don't love you. Honestly, I want to fuck you."

Wait. I can use this face-to-face when she brings up the issue. Then I'll do the Stelar takeaway...
LOL.

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