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For a quick summary though:
- Girl I see a lot at gym
- Showed a lot of interest in me
- Asked her out and went on two dates (dinner + late night picnic)
- She suggested we lie down together during picnic and she put her head on me and said "just to let you know, I move really slow"
- The following week, she said she just wanted to be friends bc she felt like we were more like friends and that it was weird seeing each other so much at the gym

The girl doesn't play games and is very honest and straightforward. She's shy, but also independent and confident in herself.

So enough of the background.

After she put me in the friendzone, I told her I would need to move on and I've just been ignoring her at the gym. I haven't been rude or anything, but I don't start conversations with her or anything like that. Last week, she went to stretch on the mat next to me and said hi and was about to start a conversation with me. I just stuck my tongue out at her and just gave a smile. She did the same thing and smiled back. I didn't really want to talk because I don't want to be "just friends" so I didn't say anything to her and left the mat after a couple of minutes.

Last night, she was leaving the gym and I was close to her path. She comes up and says hi. She tells me that I look cute. I said thanks, so do you. More small talk and conversation dies down. It was just silence and she doesn't leave and just stays there in front of me. After a bit, I say "that was a quick workout. didn't you just get here?" She said something like "you know, you're right. i'm gonna go workout on the mat a bit more." She goes to the mat and I see her look at me a couple times. She's been looking at me a lot even after she put me in the friendzone. She's done this even before we went on our two dates.

I feel like she likes me, but I'm not sure if I should try to go for it again or just let this one go. When we had our friendzone talk, she told me she found me really attractive, but didn't feel anything aside for friendship. Plus the gym awkwardness bothered her. Is she simply looking at me bc she finds me attractive or do you think her behavior means she's still interested.

Not sure what my next move should be.

GET SEXUAL! she is waiting for you to take the lead! Kino, remarks, contact!

She is giving you an open door, and it's about to close!

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I am going to give you a good dose of reality here.

Lame. BRO WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN DOING!!!

You have to touch her. You have to be sexual.

"that was a quick workout. didn't you just get here?" What the fuck does that mean?

Put your hand on her shoulder and say, "Hey Isabelle." Then GRAB her hand and tell her to TURN. Twirl her around by her hand above her head, watch her reaction. Tell her, "Wow, you look sexy."

If you say, "But that just isn't me man. I can't do that." Then I am going to ask you, "Was that just you being you when you discovered jacking off?"

This is seduction. It will always be like this. That's all I can say.

If she gives you bullshit, say "Isabelle you're a nice girl but we shouldn't talk anymore. You always turn me on and I get all sorts of dirty thoughts. You are trouble." Then give it a week or two of no contact for her to start looking at you as a potential sex partner instead of as a friend.

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I agree with both of you. The thing is, when I initiated kino at the gym (after our second date), she seemed to get annoyed and then a few days later, that's when she told me she just wanted to be friends. She specifically mentioned the gym situation as one of her reasons. She seems really shy about touching at the gym. Her other reason is that she didn't feel anything more than friendship (aside for the fact that she's physically attracted to me).

So I'm in this situation where I need to kino her to get her to think of me as more than a friend, but at the same time I can't kino her at the gym because she specifically doesn't like that. That's what's confusing me. What the hell though, since I think you're both right, I'm just gonna go for it and up the kino and be sexual. If it doesn't work, then I'll move on.

You should of used my line right after she told you that you should just be friends. But don't worry! Touch her again and I bet she will bullshit you once again, this time use my line. Get in her space, gaze at her seductively. POKER FACE.

Man if I were you, I would be full of rage. Even after getting rejected, I couldn't deal with the thought of "Let's just be friends". I would at least walk away as someone who has done his job and never have to be in the friend zone with that girl ever again.

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Yeah, I've been ignoring her ever since she told me she only wanted to be friends. I'd nod at her but wouldn't talk. I'm guessing that's why she's coming back to me. I think you're right about what I need to do though so I'll go ahead and just do it. Thanks.

Just ignoring her can make her think you're just being a big baby. It's much better to tell her she is so hot that she affects your studying and you can't talk to her.

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