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I have a big dick, get the girls I want all that
This made me not wanna answer your question.
But it is a sexquestion and a kinky one at that so Ill give you some advice or ideas.
Dominance you say. If you are truly dominant and not just trying to be one because it sounds cool, you wouldnt really need advice but rather inspiration.
Basically break down what you are into:
Bondage, mental dominance, physical dominance, exhibitionism or humiliation.
From there, you gotta go for the one you like the best. Find girls who are different, and kinky in themselves and let them take you for a ride for a change. Experience what they like and see if it is something that you like too.