Brought up something you noticetd on your girlfriends mobile? When I asked my girfriend if i could borrow her phone to call someone an dialed a number i noticed a name with call and message(sendt/recived) as a human i was curious and puched on 2-3 messasge just to see what the fuck this was about, the only thing i got wa "message couldnt find"

So how afc is it to brought thisup? Or should i just ignore it?

Bring it up if you want to lose her.

Jealousy on the guy's part is never a good thing, it lowers your value and gives the driver seat to the girl.

So simple answer would be yes it would be quite AFC as it shows insecurity and jealousy.

Ok, as i thought. It just that i know there was something between them before she met me and as i know he was married and had kids at that time, and he is still married..

But yes, i dont want to lose here so im going to follow your advice.fuck this shit.

I mean if you saw evidences that she's cheating on you then that would be a totally different story.

However from what you've stated above it was just a "message not found" It could've just been the hey what's up AFC convo. It's not worth your time tripping about these little things.

Well maybe not direct but, feeling if you can say that? It just that i find it very strange why she deletes only his message, and not the others. At first i thought what you thought. She might delete the message because she needed some space on her mobile, or just that she want to have controll over her message or a simpely afc convo with the guy.. But i was wrong, there was other message that also had the same datetime from other people, but those wasnt deleted..

Everything that is sendt from her to him, and recived message from him to her is deleted.

But if this is just a afc act from my site, then wlell i have to calm the fuck down.

Is there any other who have advice?

If she was up to something, then she wouldn't have let you near her phone.

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If so. Why does she delete every message from him an not the other guys on her phone?

Don't say anything just be extra aware. Jealousy is not a good thing so if she has not showed any signs of cheating don't do anything and just trust her. My ex gf would accuse me of being a player and banging girls here and there that at one point I was so close to cheating on her just because I was tired of the accusations. I have never cheated on anyone in my life. Don't fuck it up man just keep your eyes pealed if you suspect something but DON'T tell her you don't trust her!! DONT!

One thing I learn is, you don't get feeling like that for no reason.. Honestly she may not be cheating but she is definitely hiding something. And you are not in control of your relationship because if you were, you wouldn't be asking us these questions. Which means, your girlfriend doesn't respect you as much as she should. I will just come right out and say something and see how she acts..

Real casual like " Hey whats up with you deleting only this guys messages" And watch her reaction closely for signs of emotion. Just don't let her acussing you of not trusting her shake you up for else she will lose respect for you. You have to have the " I checked you phone, so what" attitude.

Fuck that, " if you want to lose her don't do it" shit.. Thats your girl, ask her whatever the fuck you want. And if she trys to hide something just move on and get a new girl. Don't be timid to bring up something that your curious about because " you don't want to lose her" thats the most afc shit i've ever heard.

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Yeah.. This is the first time I have this kind of feeling. I dont belive that she actually is cheating, but it pisses me of when she hide something. When i found out that she was deleting everything from the guy on her phone, I started to talk something about moral and shit, like why should a person hide something from you when the person is in relationship" just to see what she answared...and yeah she agreed about it.

But still, she is deleting everything from him. So yeah, im going to confront to her when i meet here next time.

Oh stop it.

"She's deleting everything from him" you say as if you know for a fact there are hundreds of texts between them. If it bugs you that much you may as well break up with her. Either that or get over it.

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