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normally i choose to go with the indirect way but sometimes i try to be more direct
In my opinion, if your going indirect, approach girls / groups with
dance related questions. Although inDirect ain't my style I would
say something like "Hey guys, sorry to bother you, I'm just about
to go practice some new moves before the dance competition starts
but I need to ask this...Hardstyle Shuffle or Tektonik?"
By throwing in that you're about to go and meet up / practice
with some friends of yours, you're telling them that you need
to be somewhere and can't stay for that long (throw in a time
constraint if you like aswell) and you really wanted to get
an opinion before you bounce.
It comes off as completely legit because the event can
be used in succession with the opener
I wouldn't ask them
"Who lies more, men or women?" Who cares who lies more? Their
there to party and dance, so make openers or even a routine in relation
to that...You can even say,
and I reckon this would
really get a conversation
going... "Hey guys, quick question: Deadmau5 or Armin Van Burren?"
From my experience, this is always a FANTASTIC ice-breaker and
awesome starter towards a conversation, you can even
tell if there is a girl in the group that likes the same music as you.
You're getting them to qualify themselves without them knowing it.
If you're more into Direct say something like "Hey, I was just about
to go and practice with some friends before the competition starts,
but I just had to come over and say I really like you're dance clothes..."
Wait for response...then reply with "No problem, I haven't seen a single
girl here who can dress well to compliment their dancing, you just have
a certain vibe about you...I like that
" You're coming off
as a really confident guy and your letting her know right away
what you're intentions towards her are, that's why Direct is
so effective.
You see what I'm getting at?
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