Direct opener? Tired of InDirect. Help needed



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:53 pm 
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Been in game for long time,(2 years just reading book) started to take things seriously ( started to take action ) just three months ago.
For three month i have been going out everyday, except sometime i skip few days coz i feel like shit but now i am kind a little bit getting used to it. but can,t really say i am getting better, ofcourse i feel better about myself and feel more comfortable in social situation. but i dont have much result from the appraoch i did. i just have three number close, two flake. I am not complaining about getting result fast, i will do it 10 years if thats what i have to do.
its just that i am fucking tired of InDirect Opener, today i meet like four two different girl, I open them with a pussy indirect way like i always to
" hey where can i find those big teddy bear, i want to buy it for my sister." they are really positief and even asking me where i am from and stuff, they were hottie and totally into me coz i have positief energy i dress nice i smile, i speak loud even if its some pussy opener. i could have just told her how beautifull she look. but i didn,t and later, damn i feel like bitch, little bit angry at myself too. but on the same time good coz i also get a very strong feeling that i have to switch to direct opener. coz i get a feeling that since InDirect opener have no much risk and will keep me forever as a pussy guy who is afraid to let go of his ego, afraid of rejection . For so long i feel that i have to switch to Direct but since i am such a pussy i couldn,t do it, giving myself excuse about how inDirect can also work. But today i really feel strong about chinging it. feel like its time i have to let go of this pussy ego and man up. hope i will have that same feeling tommorow.
so to get to the point i need help from you guys, how should i start, how can i throw away that pussy mindset. ofcourse i am ready to take big action if i have to but i am here so you can guys can give me some extra advice to save my time or even motivate me thank you .
Thank you


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:37 pm 
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Well it's very obvious that you don't have a problem approaching women which is a good thing because most men have that problem. However, your problem is not the opener because an opener is just something to get you to start a conversation with a girl, but your problem is how to escalate and get into deeper steps with women.

The way you need to look at things is by saying to yourself a rejection will not harm you in any way, i know rejction sucks big time but hey is it going to kill you? i don't think so :) So what you gotta do from now on after approaching a woman is to escalate to keep the conversation going and make her become interested in you. Be funny and active, go KINOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO and talk about your strong points, what you do in life? CEO WOW. Any bullshit thats gona wow a woman :)


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