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What does this even mean?! haha
I've noticed that a lot of the girls my age (18-22) often say this to me after kissing them. I haven't been able to draw a correlation between the ones that have told me this and their readiness to sleep with me though...
What goes through a girls mind when she tells a guy this? Is it just to stroke his ego/keep him around? Just trying to make sense of this as it relates to female psychology because I've never told/nor felt the need to tell a girl that she was a good kisser.
inb4 'how do you do it' - Just follow their lead, and keep their pace.
Well, even they don't like you, that they're definitely attracted to you, or simply, your a really good kisser. I've been told this myself, I'll even give you a story of when I was told this when a girl didn't like me, but she definitely thought I was attractive. First, I was still on the on-line thing and she approached me. I wasn't feeling her at all, but I wasn't in a good place, so I was like f it and threw caution into the wind. She was a British chick and the rare occacssion when she looked better in person, than in her pic, but she was still a 6/5 at best!
Anyway, I'm making the most of it, drinking wine with her, we then go to my fav british place, they have a special area for me. I am making out with her pretty hard on this couch in the place...feel on pda. She's ok with it, then she mentioned something about how much wine I drank and thinks I'm going to "change" or get defensive which I don't. I then say, wow, didn't realize it, I just starting taking anti-depressants also...I'm pretty sure this freaked her out a little, but she was all about making out, and did tell me what a great kisser I was.....Anyway, I send her on her way. I follow up in a day or two, her response, "You're a ton of fun, I had a blast and an amazing kisser, but I don't think we should go out again."
I actually laughed my ass off when I read it. She obviously thought I was nuts, and I really didn't care.... my long winded point, of a story I always found amusing...maybe you just are... there's a lot worse things you could be...
J