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PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2012 5:35 pm 
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There's this HB8 at my job. Been working there for about a month on the weekends. So I've been flirting hard with her, lots of sexual tension, kino, plenty of IOI's.

On friday we get out at 11:30pm and decide to go to a bar with a bunch of friends from work. I leave my car at work and she drives. After an hour most everyone had gone to another bar or left, so it was me and this HB. At this point I know shes really into me. I get pretty heavy on the kino on the arms/back. Our conversation gradually gets more and more sexual and really intense. It's about 4:30am when we head out. She drives me back to the parking lot where my car is and we sit in her car for a bit and talk. Things start to get heavy again. I make a cocky/funny comment about fucking her in the back of her car and she says "...I'm not sleeping with you." I was kind of thrown off and didn't really have a creative comeback to this, kinda just let it ride. We hugged and then I threw out a compliance test for her to text me when she got home. She did.

Next day, Saturday. We and the same group of friends go out again after work and I drive her. This time I back off and start gaming other chicks at the bar AND make sure she sees it. This place is a hole in the wall, everyone knows everyone, so I start making my rounds trying to get to know everyone, showing more DHV. A little later I come back around to the HB and start gaming her again, heavy on the kino, building up sexual tension again. She tells me a lot of stories about all these guys who hit on her and buy her things and put her up on a pedestal and I just plow that shit down. It's from a method I read on here, but I started projecting back like "Yea If I was hitting on you I'd totally buy you 300 roses stuffed with a bottle of champagne, strap it to your car and then write my number in window paint all over it so everyone could see." I kept doing that to every story she threw out. Anyway, nights over and I drive her back to her car. We sit in my car for a bit and talk, bad convo cause she was freaked out by this weirdo at the bar. She hugs me and I kiss her on the cheek.

Next day, Monday. Work is closed but everyone is going out to dinner together at night. So its going on 3 days in a row we chilled. Shit gets interesting tho. All throughout dinner it was this big shit fest between me and this HB. She'd come at me, I'd throw something back, repeat. So we had 5 bottles of wine between 6 people at this point. We head out to the same bar again. This time HB is with her friend. By now I pretty much know everyone at this bar, I head in and say hi. This hot ass set walks in, me and my boy go open it up. I end up talking with this HB6 who just turned 21, get bored and walked off. I head over to the HB from works friend and start talking to her. It was like I struck a nerve hahah, HB cant stop staring at me talking to her friend. So she goes and talks to some other dude and I completely ignore it.

After a while I head back to the HB and start gaming again. Seems like things have escalated. She starts reciprocating kino, which she hadn't ever done before. She tells me she wants to go for a walk around the block. In my head I'm like fuck yeah. Her friend was wasted tho and the whole convo was about her, couldn't get out of that frame. I threw out the claw and she had her arm around my waist A few minutes into the walk I grabbed her and was about to kiss her and she just hugs me, so I say "would you like to kiss me?" she says "......No" I reply "haha didn't really want to kiss you either." She says "Nice try though." WTF? We head back to the bar and I'm outside talking to the HB's drunk friend. Her friend is like "Omg HB thinks you're SO good looking, I mean she thinks you're perfect. Like really she feels like your just...unobtainable." I walk back into the bar and shit gets heavy again. I sit next to HB and put my hand on her upper leg and start rubbing it. She takes my hand and holds it, intensely squeezing it. I take my free hand and put it back on her leg, while shes holding the other one. 20 Minutes later everyone starts heading out. So I walk HB to her car. She hugs me really tight and starts thrusting her pelvis in to me. Her chest is basically in my face. I start kissing it, then her neck, then go to her lips and she turns away. WTF?? Anyway I tell her to text me when she gets home, she does.

Okay, so whats up with all the LMR? How do I close this?


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2012 5:44 pm 
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Haha, you gotta f close that shit.

your doing good bro, she wants a slow ride. haha

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Seems like she has some sexual hangups. Twice you verbalized your intent to do something sexual (First in the car joking about fucking her, second on the walk when you asked her to kiss you) and both times she said no but then got more sexual with you anyways. Because she has hangups about sex she will feel "dirty" if she verbalizes it. Don't put her in a position to verbalize it. Its obvious she wants you from how she acted in the bar the last night.

Best bet is to invite her over to your house using some kinda non-sexual and innocent sounding excuse. because of her sexual hangups if its obvious its your attempt at hooking up she will reject you even tho she wants too. make it innocent sounding.

Once shes there pull out a movie, watch it, escalate a little. Dont do any of the gay "do you wanna kiss me" or anything like that. Keep all seduction non-verbal. Look up "DiCarlo escalation ladder" and "anti-manifesto" (by 60yearsofchallenge) to learn a bit about non verbal seduction.

When you feel the time is right (if you feel it then chances are she does too) then make your move and kiss her. Don't ask.... just look into her eyes, feel it, and then move in.

Even if she turns her head, if she smiles or jokes about it, or basically doesn't freak out then just smile because its just resistance and not rejection. Escalate some more and try again in a few.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2012 7:02 pm 
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Seems like she has some sexual hangups. Twice you verbalized your intent to do something sexual (First in the car joking about fucking her, second on the walk when you asked her to kiss you) and both times she said no but then got more sexual with you anyways. Because she has hangups about sex she will feel "dirty" if she verbalizes it. Don't put her in a position to verbalize it. Its obvious she wants you from how she acted in the bar the last night.

Best bet is to invite her over to your house using some kinda non-sexual and innocent sounding excuse. because of her sexual hangups if its obvious its your attempt at hooking up she will reject you even tho she wants too. make it innocent sounding.

Once shes there pull out a movie, watch it, escalate a little. Dont do any of the gay "do you wanna kiss me" or anything like that. Keep all seduction non-verbal. Look up "DiCarlo escalation ladder" and "anti-manifesto" (by 60yearsofchallenge) to learn a bit about non verbal seduction.

When you feel the time is right (if you feel it then chances are she does too) then make your move and kiss her. Don't ask.... just look into her eyes, feel it, and then move in.

Even if she turns her head, if she smiles or jokes about it, or basically doesn't freak out then just smile because its just resistance and not rejection. Escalate some more and try again in a few.
very wise. make her EMOTIONS say yes,

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2012 8:11 pm 
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Seems like she has some sexual hangups. Twice you verbalized your intent to do something sexual (First in the car joking about fucking her, second on the walk when you asked her to kiss you) and both times she said no but then got more sexual with you anyways. Because she has hangups about sex she will feel "dirty" if she verbalizes it. Don't put her in a position to verbalize it. Its obvious she wants you from how she acted in the bar the last night.

Best bet is to invite her over to your house using some kinda non-sexual and innocent sounding excuse. because of her sexual hangups if its obvious its your attempt at hooking up she will reject you even tho she wants too. make it innocent sounding.

Once shes there pull out a movie, watch it, escalate a little. Dont do any of the gay "do you wanna kiss me" or anything like that. Keep all seduction non-verbal. Look up "DiCarlo escalation ladder" and "anti-manifesto" (by 60yearsofchallenge) to learn a bit about non verbal seduction.

When you feel the time is right (if you feel it then chances are she does too) then make your move and kiss her. Don't ask.... just look into her eyes, feel it, and then move in.

Even if she turns her head, if she smiles or jokes about it, or basically doesn't freak out then just smile because its just resistance and not rejection. Escalate some more and try again in a few.
Perfect advice man. I really need to work on non-verbal escalation/seduction. The reason I verbalize it is because it makes me feel less awkward, but its obviously not working


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