I have been dating a HB 8 a long Time and lately we got into a relationship. The first two weeks were really good, we were 'in love' and so on and so on. But then all of a sudden she didnt text me anymore and when she after a week finally answered and i asked her if she wanted to meet she said she had no time and she would hang out with friends every day of the week..

I have two questions:

1. did something like this ever happen to one of you? what were the reasons? (she doesnt have another man, i know that from a good friend of hers but she cant tell me either why my gf behaves that way)

2. is there an option to end this without breaking up and moving on for me?

I tried a freeze out, but it seemed not to have any effects on her, although she was begging me to get in a relationship with her when we started together..

It sounds like things moved insanely fast. How old are the two of you?

Agreed.


Or you aren't pleasing her? Does she orgasm? Anyways this should be in the pussy relationship area.

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I am 18 and she is 17 and she is still a virgin, so she wanted me to take it slowly in that matter .

and yeah, things moved very fast, thats why i am so clueless what happened..

There's phases to a relationship. You two were in an advanced phase way too early, bro.

I hate playing mind games... hate it... but why are YOU the one wondering why she isn't texting back? Don't you think that should be her job?

yup, youre right, thats what bothers me too

hm, all my other relationships were not that complicated and i never recognised any phases.. could you give me a link to your source because that sounds interesting..

so, do you think i should break up?
or is there a way to make a step back and start again?

Any time I've seen a person break up a relationship because they feel it's either going to end soon with her breaking up with you or because they're not getting enough attention... it ends with the person who did the breaking up still talking to her and trying to get it back together. Literally always.

Whatever she's doing to you... ignoring you for her friends... not texting... how does it make you feel? I'm not going to speak for you but I assume from my own experience that it feels like you care more about her than she does for you.

That's where insecurities come in. You want the text back because it's solidification that she DOES want you. You want her to hang out with you because she DOES want you. You want these things because they're easy signs for you to read that she WANTS you.



What if she's head over heels for you, bro? Would you care if she texts you if you know she absolutely loves dating you? You'd let her do her own thing.

She's dating you man. That's all of the signals you need that she is into you.

If you think that you changed the way you treat her since BEFORE you began dating her, fix it. Go back to how you used to be with her. Remember when you first started talking to her... did you care if she went out with her friends? I would be surprised if you did since you're a normal guy.

thanks for that answer i think you are definitely right..
ill try what you recommended and wont break up with her.
i will invest more time in friends and other distractions so that i wont think about her and try to get a text from her.

thanks again man, i think i know now what to do