So this is my second time talking to this hot chick (shes really really hot. Almost a legit 10). The first time we talked I was really into PUA and worked hard on being really cocky/funny and running routines and shit. We went on a few dates but I never F closed. She was still pretty hung up on an ex.

We quit talking for about six months then I hit her up on FB chat one day. She was reallyyyy happy to talk to me and told me to text her. So we texted for about a month and eventually hung out last week and had a really good time. I k-closed but that's it.

Basically I've been being pretty AFC with my gaming. I've been being really sweet, complimenting a lot, being available often. But she seems to be digging it! She tells me how amazing I am says I make her days better when she talks to me. So I'm just like wtf, I'll just keep being a pussy.

So she sends me this text the other that says she's really missed me but not in a mushy gushy way. I'm like her perfect hangout buddy. So I know, I'm thinking I've OBVIOUSLY been friend zoned. I didn't really feel like fighting to dig myself out of that whole so I just kept being AFC about the whole thing and agreed to hang out with her soon.

So we hung out tonight, and I was her best bud in the world. Laughing at all of her stories, listening to her problems, I was basically her bitch. I hugged her good night, and went home. Then as soon as I get home I get a text asking if I'm mad! I'm like.. Wtf, why would I be mad? And she's like.. "You didn't kiss me goodnight. Did I do something wrong?"

AHHHHHHHhhH. women confuse the shit out of me. Should I keep being AFC? Does she want to be fuck buddies? Why would she always call me amazing if that's the case?

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"Real Niggaz do what they want, Bitch Niggaz do what they can do." -2pac

My personal interpretation of all of this is that both of you are in the exact same position right now. Both of you like each other a lot and both of you are waiting for the other one to make the first move. Don't let this go on for too long, eventually she'll just decide you're not going to do anything and flake.

One time when you're hanging out just turn to her and be all like:

"What would you say if I tried to kiss you right now"

If she says yes, hesitates or says she doesn't know then go for it. If she says it'd gross her out or whatever then just casually be okay with it and get on with your day.

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Can you feel my dick.. Fucking your mind..?

You can't view game as a one-dimensional thing. You're having trouble digesting exactly what happened because you assume "game" always refers to being cocky/funny or some indirect method of contrived concealment to seduce her into bed; but such is not the case.

This is what happened: You ran c/f first when you FIRST met her so attraction already EXISTED. Remember nice guys don't fuck up because they build rapport - they fuck up because they build rapport WITHOUT attraction. Rapport built under the SUBTEXT of attraction, like in your case, is gold.

The key to a girl's heart is not to be a nice guy, nor is it to be an asshole. It's to create a perfect BLEND between those two personalities that get her going. To create the perfect BALANCE between sometimes ignoring her, at other times showing commitment. Between sometimes k-closing and other times NOT k-closing to shoot some dread into your dynamic. To occasionally be laconic, and then charismatic and talkative. Seduction is a paradoxical art, to master it, you need to embody its paradox.

What you need to do now is NOT slide towards one direction. Now that you have rapport - BREAK RAPPORT to build attraction. You didn't kiss her, that made her think she did something wrong. Good shit. Anxiety and pain are prerequisites to love and pleasure. Now the next time you see her, kiss her passionately like you've never kissed another girl before.

The problem that most guys have is they do what you are doing now.

They think "fuck it, this is working... let's just continue it."

Ever see a guy run c/f all night with a girl? She gets bored. Without a deeper emotional connection, he's not going anywhere.

Ever see a guy ALWAYS act nice and sweet with a girl? 6 months into their relationship, she's bored.

Ever see a guy who KEEPS running vulnerability game? They think "well I said one insecure thing, now she gives me alot of attention and thinks I'm a much deeper guy. Maybe I should say reveal another insecurity...and another...and another."

You see where this is going.

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