Ok so I have been living with this chick for about 8 months, along with another dude. Her and I get along pretty well for the most part. Well she is leaving soon and up to this point I have had a mentality of not shitting where I eat so I have tried to hold off on making a move.

Last night me her and him were chilling and talking. It Got really sexual really fast. I think she brought up making out with another guy and me and the other roommate pretty much ramped things up from there. I asked her if she liked to hook up with other girls, whether she likes to have her face came on, what size dick she likes, etc. We were all having fun laughing and I pretty much through out every sexual suggestion to her as possible.

At one point she goes " If a guy tries to hook up with me and I don't hook up with him in the first few months he isn't going to get any " . It felt like that was a shot right at me, but not sure how to take it. She then tells us how she hasn't found one good looking american since she has gotten here. ( I'm the only american living here and this felt like another dig ) .

She is extremely difficult to read because she has openly admitted that she likes to do things just for attention and while I think she has done things in the past to show interest in me, I think it could have been done just for attention seeking purposes. What would be a good way that I could physically escalate with her without putting out the creeper vibes?

8 months ? what the heck were you doing for so long ? and why is the other dude with you.

she is interested in you, or was at any rate. now this has become a hard one to recover.

my suggestion : you need a game changer, that changes how she perceives you. make a bold move on her, pretend as if you didn't think of her in terms of a mate before that day (when something clicked) and take her to a date, a fucking awesome one. kino escalate throughout, make out, have your logistics done beforehand and close.

There is no way to escalate without "risking" creepy vibes.. You can't have you cake and eat it, you just have to find out.

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Over the past 8 months I have been a bit flirty, just never quite put it all out on the table. We got into a fight once and I joked with her about some makeup sex but she told me no thanks. She did ask me about my relationship status about a month ago as well. I remember one time in particular she was wearing these glasses and I told her that she looked very cute with them. She was looking at me and did this hair flip and kinda blew air out her mouth sideways to push the hair out of her eyes. It felt like maybe this should have been a good time but it could have been nothing.

And just last week I was joking about her spandex pants she was wearing. She told me " Oh Well I don't care when people look " . She then looked at her ass then continued to do what she was doing. But I kinda blew that because I mentioned that I love when girls wear that and I got a jealousy vibe and she started to get really annoyed when the attention wasn't on her anymore.

she is a girl that loves attention. I guess you could say over the past 8 months I have tried to ignore her and hoping that she could see by my disinterest it would somehow be appealing. But here is the thing, I don't know if that is working or not because I have never been direct enough to find out.

this shit doesn't mean anything, she is just comfortable,

I could go up and have a conversation about sex with a girl I have known for less then 10 minutes, if she gets into the conversation, doesn't mean she wants to fuck me, they are just words

right now it has been a long time, and the frame set behind your relationship is, friendly roomies, you have to risk something, and change the meaning behind the relationship between the two of you, this will be harder now that you have waited so long, she already has an impression of who you are, and that impression is not of the category of

-guy I sleep with

I suggest little baby steps, start with you know something is different about you, giving her little compliments here or there about how she has been looking good lately, maybe one day just walk past her naked, act like it's no big deal,

*shrugs* ''not like you haven't seen it before'' then just keep moving like it wasn't your intention, if you are going to sleep with her she is going to see you naked eventually anyways, just make sure it doesn't look like it was your intention to get her to see you naked

get close to her, give her hugs, be affectionate, stay off the joking about sex and get a bit more serious, flirt with it, pull away from the idea rather then pursueing it, be more ambiguous about it

flirt the line


but realistically, you would be better just meeting new girls, and plenty of them, rather then trying to fuck your roomate, I don't see this going as well for you as just going for random girls that you don't know