Guys,

This saturday I'm going on a "first date" with this girl I met last week. (I never called it a date tho, I just called her and told her I was gonna take her out)

My idea was to go bowling, because bowling is competetive, you can get some easy kino going and it's just fun to do.
Now I was wondering about paying, cause I see threads here all the time with "You should never pay for the girl, you should both share the costs."

Should I pay in this case? For the bowling and for the drinks we're gonna have?
If not, how should I make not paying for her not awkward?
Also, anyone got any tips for my "first date" with her?

Thanks!!

It depends. I would do it that way, one round goes on you the next one on her. Same with the drinks, you oranize one, she does the next one. You have more in common and thus you create some bonding between each other. Giving out drinks to a girl is onlz bad if she demands that from you and you do it in order to impress her somehow. If its just 2 bucks its somewhat stupid to say: nooo, this one you have to pay cuz its said so in the books. Thats awkward.

Tipps: Be playful, have fun, enjoy your time. Shell play along with that.

I say you just pay for the bowling and you say... If I win you buy the drinks, if you win you get to kiss me.. Just be sure to be playful about it.

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I agree with Fuze

Thanks for the advice!
Btw Fuze, I followed up your advice from my last thread and it worked!! Thanks