Okay this girl i am seeing went out last night and cheated.

I really like her and from what she tells me and the signals she really likes me too. Weve been dating a few months and its at the serious stage. Last night she went out to a club and cheated. She text me this morning telling me what happened and that shes so sorry.

I havent replied.. What do i do?

I would bail on the relationship. Booty call if need be, but I would personally struggle to continue a relationship after that.

dude trust me, walk away. If she liked you that much she would not have done it.

Right now, you may feel like, oh shit she likes me i feel sorry for her etc... BULLSHIT..... she cheated on you, she had no respect for you at the time, it doesnt "just happen" . Right now you will feel week and try making excuses to make it work, or want her etc...

If you go back she's making you less of a man. Fuck her out of your life. Don't go back because trust me, in a few weeks she will have lost respect for you, she will get paranoid, drama will come up and if youve let her get away with that she will do it again. TRUST ME.

Text back saying, just shows that im better off without you, have a nice life.

Be the man. Walk away, don't give in to her emotional state. She will come out on top if you do. It may hurt, but you know that you can't go back. Once a cheat always a cheat. And if you had been seeing each other that long then she totally disrespected you. Walk

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3) Open relationship (and start dating other girls)

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Fuck that. Texted you instead of telling you right straight to your face? This girl has no balls and will definitely trample all over you the next time(she seems to be prone to cheating). I would cut the string and go game other chicks who do respect you, there is no reason for you to go back to her. Be a man. Been dating a few months and she cheated? Treat her like a vagina that you just fuck.

i've been exactly there before and accepted the apology. here is my advice to you... face her tell her she fucked up and walk away. you will gain nothing from the relationship

Being told over text is a seriously cowardly move on her part!

Was it just a kiss or full blown sex?

You might forgive her if it's just a kiss but you'd better make her work like hell to earn your forgiveness if that's the route you'd like to go down.

If it was sex then my advice would be to get rid of her! You will always be paranoid when she goes out and it will make you insecure. It will hurt short term dumping her but it would hurt long term staying with her!

Make your own decision.. but just know that she will lose all respect for you if you just take her back. Which will result in her cheating more and more. I honestly don't think you should reply to her text at all. Just go ghost on her for a week. She'll be calling you and texting you a ton. Ignore em all, in a week if you still want her.. Text her " Hey I've been busy whats up?" Thats where she must be downgraded to a FB and you tell her your going to see other women for now.

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If she had cheated on you before you even started going out, how would she be like when she actually does go out with you? girls will try everything to impress a guy before starting a relationship with them, and she failed to do that. Can you trust her? i know what you mean when you say you really like her but dude you will not trust her when she's out, all you gona be doing all night thinking whether she'd been with someone else or not. Don't hurt yourself man, girls are not worth it. I been there, not long ago and it hurts so bad but hey there is plenty of fish in the sea.