In the friendzone? Empowering in a way that is direct and manly. Not in a way that tries to solve her problems or act as her therapist. More like in a way to tell her to let go of her insecurities and chill the fuck out. Not in a kiss ass way either; more likely to be blunt about it.

I have this girl that I am seeing and I can sense her little insecurities around me. It is kind of annoying. Being more experienced, I can manipulate her, but is it wrong to have all the power in the relationship? I want to give her a little dose, but not too much...unless you other experienced PUA's have another take on this.

So if I get this right, she is depressed or? And she is your sexual partner?

Well depression is a serious issue and isn't easily dealt with. Most pua strategies are designed for the women to feel good so just make sure she's happy and when she starts to bitch to you use seductive listening or something

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Aside from therapeutical listening, you can empower this girl to:

• - Cook meals for you;
  - Do your laundry
  - Lend you money
  - Give you a back massage every now and then
  - Clean your house
  - Run errands
  - Other productive activities that will make you happy

The gist is, if this girl feels like she has invested in you and you appreciate these active investments of hers, she'll feel a bit more secure around you. At the back of her mind, she'll think you can't have any other girl that can cook the best grilled Gindara for you or whatever.

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haha, so manipulative. No, the girl is not depressed, just insecure.

Not really brother.

All kinds of people have a need to be needed. Girls will in fact volunteer to do these things for you even without asking them. It makes them feel good. When girls want to be generous with you, let them. It'll make them feel good about themselves.

Reward good behavior. She'll become a better cook.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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