| Good morning y'all,
For those who never heard of me, I am a huge fan of night game. I've been going out a lot for the past 2 years and developed some good game overtime. For the past 6 months, I was pretty much getting at least a k-close every time I went out. However, everything changed during the last couple of weeks.
I just can't do it anymore.
I no longer am attracted to the idea of meeting new girls, starting from scratch, flirting with her and closing her. I just don't see the point of it anymore. Why would I do that? Chances are I won't see either ever again after I close her for the simple fact that I don't have enough time. I already have some girls who keep asking to see me and I always tell them that I can't. It's not like getting new girls would solve that problem... So yeah, I no longer see the point of gaming new girls since I will never get to know them for real.
When I got into the game, I wanted to lose my v-card and fuck as many girls as I could, flirt with a ton of girls and etc. But these are not my goals anymore. In fact, I find those stupid, if you ask me.
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All this with the fact that almost all of my real friends and good wings are now in a relationship got me thinking about getting a girlfriend. But not just any girlfriend for the sake of it. In fact, there is probably around 5 girls who would crave to go out with me, but I just don't feel like it would work out well. That being said, there is currently 2 girls that I find attractive and that I actually took time to get to know lately and I see those two girls as potential girlfriends. But while It would be easy to get in a relationship with girls that I already hooked up with, these two girls have something in common. I didn't kiss any of them (In fact, one has a boyfriend). I am currently working on these girls and they are basically the only ones that I would bring back home.
The fact that the only 2 girls I want never hooked up with me got me thinking, is it as case of: I want what I can't get. ?
I knew girl no.1 for a while now but never really gamed her since she was hooking up with my best friend. But that's a while ago and he's got a girlfriend now (Which hates her) so it would be super awkward if I would ever go out with her and see my friend. So yeah, I've seen that girl a couple of times now, we got along very well, I gamed her and she gave me great IOI's, definitely got out of the friendzone but I only managed to dance with her since I got cockblocked by my own wing. I am probably seeing her this upcoming weekend and hopefully I will bring her back home.
I've seen girl no.2 a couple of times and she has an amazing personality. She gave me good IOI's but the fact that she has a boyfriend is bugging me. Clearly, she is both cute and intelligent but I don't know if I could ever trust her if I basically stole her from her boyfriend. I would always have that voice in my head that some guy could just take her like I did.
Anyways, that's a weird situation that I am in currently but I just don't feel like seeing or meeting any other girls right now. For instance, last couple of times I went out, I was just dancing to have fun, not approaching anyone, and some girls would approach me and ask for a dance. I rejected all of them.
So, 1- Didn't approach anyone.
2- Rejected easy closes.
I would be lying if I told you everything was normal, right now. I don't think this is a case of one-itis, but I just don't see myself flirting with other girls right now.
Anyways, I wanted to see if something similar ever happened to some of you guys? If yes, what did you do?
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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,
Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!
Sincerely, the Opportunist
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