Story:
This girl really liked me and we had so much in common. I really liked this girl too. We were dating for 4 months. I initially told this girl I was divorced when in fact I'm separated. (I know I shouldn't lie). Anyway, one week later she broke-up with me over the phone saying She really liked me but couldn't help how she felt. I said I understand and end of phone call. The next day she sent a text saying She will miss me and hopefully I will think of her when everything is settled. After that the whole week I keep thinking about her and totally turned AFC and sent her a text saying I miss her. I called her and told her if she could give me some time to settled things out. It was a totally high-pressure phone call and I ask if we could meet up so that I can say what I have to say in person. She agreed kind of reluctantly. The morning of the day I was suppose to meet up with her, she sent me a text saying not to making things harder than it already is, If it was meant to be then it will be but only when the time is right, and to respect her decision and give her some space. I realized my mistake and sent a text saying cool, I appreciate our time together but I agree and we need some space.

Question: That was two weeks ago. Can I salvage anything from this? If not, how can I get over oneitus?