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| socio | PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:13 am | |
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Location: London and Bournemouth | | Hey guys , i've been seeing this girl since the beginning of january..
she has invited me to one of her college parties in two days, but i just read another thread of a similar situation and the general message i got was that don't go to a party where she will know all the girls and all they guys and you know barely anyone.....
How true is this, i'd like to think i could still dhv enough through a bit of flirting and showing good social skills? what do you guys think is it something i should definitly be avoiding?
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| KimPa | PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:21 am | |
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Location: Milano | | I was put in the same situation twice before! First time, it went horrible. She was in her own social circle and there was a language barrier so it will almost impossible for me to show DHV. Besides, she hasn't seen her friends in long time so she was talking and dancing with them leaving me alone standing there and drinking! Second time I was put in a situation like that I remembered what happened first time, so immediately I started gaming her friends and getting their attention towards me. Funny part is my friend noticed that the girls were flirting with me and enjoying my company so she basically took my hand while I was talking to them and started dancing with me! It was amazing that she wouldn't let me go after she noticed their is danger that I meet win her friends! She stayed beside me all night, and then she slept over! Good luck
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| mintsauce | PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:44 am | |
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Location: 3rd rock from the sun. | | depends on how confident you feel. if you are confident you can fit in and have fun in any situation you are dropped in then this would be a massive DHV opportunity. trust me she will notice it and rate it positively.
if you are shy and not particularly outgoing then opt out and suggest an alternate outing.
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| socio | PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2012 12:00 am | |
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Location: London and Bournemouth | | Ok thanks guys i think im gonna go for it...
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take soo maybe it'll go bad and i'll learn from it.
Cheers for the advice though!
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| mintsauce | PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2012 5:05 am | |
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Location: 3rd rock from the sun. | | that's the spirit ! best of luck. go with a 'I have nothing to lose' mentality and you will be ok.
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