I just came accross this article and although it is written by a woman it makes a lot of sense, a lot of what some PUAs and gurus teach is that we should do this, this and this to get women interested but what about our needs are their no standards for women.
I used to buy into this when I was much younger and more naive and got mainly hot and cold women, the ones who are sort of interested rather than being fully interested/not interested and either waste your time or the relationship doesn't last very long.
Now I have higher standards and as soon as a woman is hot and cold that is a deal breaker for me, also if she is opinionated in a negative way, etc. This used to affect me I used to think 'must be doing something wrong, women can do no wrong the guru said I must wait for 3 days to call her and be in charge all the time for her to be interested'.
What a load of bullshit don't make that mistake go for women that appreciate you and your time, I wish I had realised that a lot sooner as now I am spending time with women that are a pleasure to be around and are great in the sack too Hehe. I don't have to game them, it isn't work to talk to them or go out on dates with them and they certainly don't test me. They are normal and well adjusted and know what they want.
Check out the article here:
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/this-is ... ert-judge/
Has anyone been handing over all their power like this or used to and learnt from their mistakes? Or had any women hand over their power to them? (if so I want to know your secret Hehe)
CHAT