I don't start fight or pick or bully on anyone. But this kid in my college, sometimes tries to pick on me, for no reason. His problem, is he is nothing but a nerd, video games, manga, comic books, creating memes and posting on facebook. acts like a kid in lab. Talks about sex with ladies, kinda insulting and inappropriately behaves with them. What to do with such people? I think, he used to be bullied and left alone when he was a kid, and thats why he is a nerd, and now he picks on people, who aren't even bothering hiim? What a joke! What to do in this case?

I talk about "sex with the ladies". What the hell is wrong with that? You don't sound like an alpha male bro.

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How is this kid affecting you? Once he does, set him straight, but for now it sounds like he is a little kid brother. Treat him as as such if he starts messing with you. You can easily own the room by talking to people and rolling your eyes when he starts crap. No need to start problems that aren't yours. There is a time and place for alpha.

Don't do anything. First off, don't insult him for being a nerd. You're just as bad as he is.

Second, don't do anything. An alpha male in this situation wouldn't be faltered by his picking on him. How fucked up do you think celebrities would be if they responded to every nit picker out there?

Don't do shit, because as an alpha male, you don't have to do shit.

Also, don't set anybody straight for affecting you. It's not their fault that they are. It's YOUR fault.

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you don't understand, he acts like a kid, and talks about fingeirng a girl in class, this guy is 21, and he is using explicit words, that creates vivid images in a girls mind. alpha men have characters, but they are also very sexual. there is a way to talk about sex with girls, not that way he is doing. and i am an alpha male, i know when and how to talk to girls, about sex.

I would just ignore him from now on. The other day, in lab, he wanted to everything, and he was criticizing me in front of everyone not getting good results in our experiment. so i said, just do it yourself and have fun, and then he said, that i suck as a scientist. i said alright. he was insulting me and saying that he can actually do, things better than i can. but guess what, at the end of the class, he messed up with 5 steps and screwd up our entire lab experiment. Do you see how people like him affect alphas? Its not the dumb people, but those who are nerdy and arrogant, and don't have any common sense. Need an example, Dwight Schrute from the Office, like how he picks on Jim. Get it?

I don't understand. What is MY fault here?

No your not, you only think you are one. So what if he is talking about such things. Either take part in conversation with him or ignore him.

Tell me, exactly why I am not, and what can I do to be one?

Because your post made you sound like AFC + dude if you were an alpha male then you wouldn't have posted on here seeking advice because with your situation an alpha male would have dealt with it with his eyes closed. Simple situation, if someone picks on you then you simply stand up for yourself by saying something to them or/and if requires hit them. If you don't stand up for yourself then he'll pick on you all the time, he might be a nerd as you claim but to me he sounds like a confident person because he talks to girls about sex and not many guys can do that. Maybe you can get him to teach you something

Look, I am 21, you may be 40+, and in that situation, you should be feeling good for yourself. My post, may sound like a fucking AFC, but I am an alpha. Need example, I walked out of the class, in front of my professor, from the fornt door. A TA asked me why, I said, my time is more valuable, than listening to this professor whose class I don't like. Now, how many students are willing to say that? Huh? They are all afraid of getting kicked out of that class. I just don't care even if I get kicked out. Alpha men play with fire, without getting thier hands burnt, and I seek situations to play with fire all the times. So, when someone like me at 21, is an alpha man, and has yet to learn more and get better, you should just feel good that you are already older than me, (if you are) and nailing down babes. At least you could have given me some insights, and not shitting on me like this. And BTW, he was talking to me about sex out loud. It was only once. The rest of hte time, he talks to them about comic books, and mangas. Now, do you call him an alpha? I can beat the shit out of this guy in seconds. I dont' do it, bc as an alpha I don't pick or bully ppl.

B/C when I read, John Alexander's book, "How to me an alpha male" he mentionend that, " never ever talk to a woman about sex" so what am i supposed to do ? He said, talking to women about sex, makes a woman think this guy is gross and a pervert. So where is my fault in this? What is the right thing to do. Tell me.

Just let this go. This seems to be going to your head quite a bit. It's as if the kid can irritate you in seconds if he really tries. I was wrong for telling you for setting him straight, I would ignore him completely. You may need to reconsider what it means to be alpha. Don't argue by the way, it's not a great way to solve things. It's just a suggestion.

Dude im your age lol and i need to get the idea on your head that an alpha male is not the person with funny attitude by walking out of classes and that. An alpha male is someone who leads a group of people, who you always see hanging out with girls. That's the definition of an alpha male. In your situation you are NOT an alpha male but you wana be one and we are more than happy to help you to be one but the first step to that is for you to admit that you are not an alpha male yet but you are determind to be one. Let go of your ego if you wana go forward, that guy picks on you and for that reason you need to teach him a lesson. An alpha male doesn't get picked on, that's your first advice

knock him the fuck out

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