For anyone who has kinda been following my mess of my gf who cheated on me one dunken night who I have moaned on here about trying to make excuses and wanting to get back with her.... etc.... got some news.

So, I fucked her a few times when we met up, she was mega emotional, and it was kinda negative emotional sex. Nowhere near as good as hot kinky fun sex, but hey, took some frustration out.

Anyway.... I chat with her flat mate loads and just now....

We are chatting for 2 hours non stop about sex, what we like doing etc, in a very flirty way on facebook, with :p, everything. She says im too good for my ex.

I was saying how i need sex to get over her, and she was saying she needs sex to get over some guy she was with, and that she wanted to go out tonight for a shag. (shes not a slut at all though tbh), anyway, everything i look for a girl she was showing and i was joking saying, come down to mine etc... and she wasnt pulling back thinking it was going too far etc.... not at all.

Anyway, im home from college for the week end, in a way wish i was there now!!!!! She mentioned one of my best mates a couple of times because she got with him a few weeks ago but hes not interested at all. And i mentioned my ex a few times, but she seemed horny as fuck and kept saying "your so funny" "LMAO" HAHAHAHA etc....

She had drank a little, but was typing fine, and after 2 hours didnt back down.

Fuck, I need to play this fucking cool hey guys? haha, im back Sunday, so what do you thinks the best plan of action.

1. i get on really well with her,
2. shes looking for a fuck buddy or sex
3. so am i
4. shes my cheating ex's flat mate

A go area do you think? I'm well up for it.

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Law of Attraction

Do it, you're in mate.

Yeah I thinks so.

What if LMR and says...

I can't im ****'s friend as well, i can't do this to her....

hmm?

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Law of Attraction

Then you say "we shouldn't be doing this, it's WRONG" and keep escalating.

don't be logical when dealing with lmr, either just agree with it and continue or find illogical solutions for the problem

her: I can't im ****'s friend as well, i can't do this to her....

you: you're her friend, I understand (continue)

or

you: no, don't worry I have to get up at 6 tommorow (continue)

just keep going until you get real resistance, like stop, no, don't

in those cases, you have two choices, either try to do a freeze out or two, and get her to pass the lmr for you, or just enjoy the makeout and don't push for more, just enjoy it and pay attention to her for if she is ready to go further

lol i find it funny that i give people the advice that people give me, when it comes to me i always need advice that i know and give haha.

It's good to share these scenarios though.

I don't know whether to just chat to her on facebook and say... wanna come down?

or ... ask her out later this week if she wants to party then just end up with her then.


hmmm, what do you guys think?

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Law of Attraction

i'd say just use her like a fuck buddy, dude she cheated on you before she will do it again. She played you, use her and move on.

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fuck buddy

Well since then....

I came home and her flat mate hates my ex now. She is disgusted with her behavior. She is still nice to her, but doesn't hang out with her.

Anyway, last week end her flat mate text me saying:

It should have been us 2, not her.

Then said that we suit etc...

I invited her to come stay with me over easter. I could go back to uni this week and escalate, but thought i'l wait for her to come here.

Not sure if i fancy her though tbh... just seeing how it goes. We are really good freinds, but It's obs that she want more.

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Law of Attraction

Do it do it do it. You have nothing to lose at this point.