OKay I have posted a lot lately. But I have also learned a lot. Somehow I tend to get every situation out there in a months time. Anyway...

This girl and I met through a friend about 3 weeks ago. We are starting to talk more often... My attraction phase didn't go to well with her. There definitely is some. But nothing to set me apart from everyone else. I have passed most shit tests, didn't fail anything badly. I refuse to be her shrink. Although she and her BF have broken up about 4 months ago and sometimes she says stuff like she only wants friends with benefits SPAM says this in a general way. I can't figure if she is making conversation or giving me bait) I don't know how to react... If I seem not interested she will move on however if I seem to interested she might just use me for validation. So thats question 1. How to respond.

We have a playfull vibe with kino, though it's not that sexual. So question 2: Can I still save this? Is there a way to get her to be fwb(which is all I'm interested in). It might seem awkward if I start escalating now etc. With me knowing her almost a month and all.

BRO. She just told you she only wants friends with benefits. You don't have to worry about shit. Just fuck her and see where it goes. Chances are she'll get emotionally invested in you after you fuck.

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The boy's right. LEarn how to eat pussy really well and pound it well she'll begin to get jealous of the mere thought of u screwing someone else if you give it to her good.

Don't cuddle her after sex let her intiate that with you (and don't always allow her too, create a bit of resistence) if you do your job right she'll get ultra comfortable with you and likely reframe you as more than a fuck buddy. Bite her (softly) pull her hair own her ass, don't hold back either. When in public whisper to her that your dick is super hard thinking of bending her over, touch her discretely (e.g. hand down back of pants, inside of thigh under table, stuff nobody but u and her know about), sexualize shit hardcore let her know you're a sexual being who isn't afraid to create and OWN the sexual frame with your masculinity.

Okay How should I react when she talks about with friends with benefits? Basically she just mentions that she is looking for somebody to do that with. I can feel the tension when she says so I think she means this toward me. But what do I say in this situation.

Don't do what cognizant suggests. Chris 2k10 is probably right.

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Man fucks Woman, she indirectly is hinting that she wants to fuck you, there's not much else to say.

The "tension" you're feeling is secksual tension, and that's a good thing. Keep calibrating secksually and you're good.

Whenever she mentions anything about friends with benefits, don't be over-eager, nor should you turn down your secksual vibe. Women WANT to be secksual, they just don't want to be judged for it. And they WANT their MEN to be secksually aggressive, they just don't them to do it in a desperately obsessive way.

What you DON'T want to do is make it look like she's throwing you off guard by what she's saying. You need to have an attitude of amused mastery, like you own her and her body.

And escalate already, you're analyzing the situation far too much.

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This coming from a guy who hasn't even gotten his first lay. You're hilarious.

Okay thanks. I think I have it.

Ok, so what happened??

You are a brilliant.I hope your success.

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Well we had lunch. I have escalated more than I normally would. She has invited me over to help her study later this week. So I guess study is code for come have sex. But I can't say anything until it has happened.
Uhm thanks? I guess.

The studying can be your ticket in, since it will most likely take place in her bedroom. Try to escalate, for example you tell her that your muscles feel tense in your shoulders, ask for a massage and afterwards massage her. I think you can be creative enough to see where it goes from there good luck mate!

It's whether she has the guts to keep to her word of me coming over. But once I'm there I'm pretty sure it's business as normal for me.

Hahaha I wish you were being ironic because that would have actually been kinda funny but you are clearly serious which is actually quite disturbing and sad.

From my experience it is the guy with the most rudimentary understanding of how sex and seduction works that is normally the virgin. I'm quite sure that you are a virgin, no guy with any real sexperience with beautiful women would talk the way that you do.

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It's okay. I have a decent bullshit filter when I plan a strategy. The problem here is not the fucking part. Its the attraction-isolation-arousal part without her thinking I'm weird.

And judging on cognizant reputation given by others I have a feeling that most people agree with you.