Okay, So I've got some decent game and I kind of know what I'm doing in general. Anyway, I manage to bring an 8 back to my place. We spent the night together and I told her I could do the whole friends thing but I needed to know now so its not complicated. She said she just wanted to be friends and I was fine with that. The thing is, She started coming over every night and we'd talk for long hours into the night. Now I can't get her out of my head and all my game is gone. I can't focus and to be honest, I think I've fallen for her. I'm pretty sure I want an actual relationship with her but I'm having trouble making the transition. What makes it worse is I was REALLY drunk one night and messaged her that I only wanted to hold her and talk. Things have been a little weird for about a week but are just starting to get back to normal now with her coming over again. Has anyone had this problem and if so. What do I do?

Your mistake was telling her you're fine with being friends. Never say that to any woman, even if you don't find her attractive at first. It will always end up fucking you somehow.

Escalate with her. Kino kino kino. Make her become attracted to you and you can turn this around. Just make sure you don't do too many friend-ish things, and don't make yourself too available.

I disagree. Friends is nothing bad. I tell plenty of girls I'm fine with being friends and I still get laid. Friends with benefits. It's all about not being platonic as you said with escalating. As a matter of fact, what you SAY in seduction barely has any substance meaning it doesn't affect outcome.

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I had completly forgotten about keno. Like I said, she totally has me off my game. Thanks for reminding me though. I think this will help a lot now that I have a focus.

Agrees with Snarg.

Yes you want to appear as her friend and disqualify yourself initially but do not ACTUALLY voice that you just want to be friends.

You need to build that sexual tension with kino RIGHT FROM THE START.

She's definitely put you in the friend zone. My advice would be to move on and forget about her. If you really want her, come back to her after some time has passed (weeks or months) and demonstrate MUCH HIGHER VALUE.

You need to make her reevaluate her feelings about you. When you come back do all the shit that Snarg and I mentioned you SHOULD HAVE been doing in the first place and I guarantee you will get her as more than just a friend.

Best regards,
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Yes but you most likely (no definitely, if they are sleeping with you as you claim) are building that sexual friendship, something that OP failed to do.

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thanx guys. I know your right about moving on. I just hate it. I've only met a few women that can stir me up like that and since my whole reason for getting into the game was increasing my chances of finding "the one" it bugs me when I blow the few chances I come by. but hey, at least that means I'm not shackled into a relationship yet and can have some more fun finding her at another date.